There is no (predetermined) future. It's all about the energy disposal and balance. So, if your energy is stronger, then you'll have the future the way you like it. If you're weaker then do something otherwise you'll lose. "Do something" means acquire more energy.
So, forget about the stories that teaches you that all you have to do is to sit and wait to see what the future is going to bring to you. Whoever "predicts" the future he is a lunatic and deceiver.
So, again, if you want things to go your way, then do not sit and wait. You better take steps that will ensure that things go your way. Otherwise, you're lost.
Hope this helps.
Ok, now more to the problem at hand:
1. You married your wife and not your wife's mother. So, your wife left you because she wanted to. That was her move and not her mother's. In better words: your wife left you and asked for divorce because she doesn't love you and because she doesn't believe in living with you.
2. You do not suppose to love somebody who doesn't love you. Why? Because the love is two-way street. As simple as that. However, if you still love your wife then you're too weak and as a such you're predernimed to lose.
ADVICE: forget about your wife. Stop loving her. Look for another woman. (This is what you're going to do one day anyway. Sooner or latter. But remember: the sooner, the better for you).
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