[chosen1]

here's the scenario: my X and I broke up about five months ago due to some trust issues.I started lying a little here and there just to avoid conflict and it finally caught up to me. We lived together for almost two years and together three. I moved my stuff out of our place after her telling threatening me to kick me out if I went and did certain stuff with my friends.-ex. Me going to bars and night clubs, she wasn't 21. She she didn't really know what happened when I would go out-. I never cheated on her and finally after me being out of our place for 2 months she broke up with me. We both were a bit immature I think

at first I was the classic dump trying to get her back by begging and so forth. I knew I just pushed her away more. She now has been dating some guy for the last 4 months who is a total goof. Her family doesn't like him much and I know he's just a rebound. I eliminated all contact with her for about 2 months while I grieved and started feeling good again. I have been dating a ton of girls but just don't really care for any of them. I still care for my x.

For the past 2 months till present we have been talking again and visiting each other here and there, no dates or messing around-she always goes and gives me a hug-. She is always the one contacting me usually text and by phone. She says I'm the one person she really can talk to if she is upset-from family to hick ups in her relationship with the goof ball. I am best friends with her whole family and do a lot of work for them. They all miss me and she tells me she misses my whole family.

to make a long story short I feel like were just lolly gagging our way along and wondering if and when we will get back together. I don't have the balls to ask her out right now because I am afraid of rejection and she has a boy friend right now, but I am pretty confident that we will get together at some point. Should I stop being a close friend again and stop seeing here about every week. I don't want to play games but I will do what I have to do. Do I go back to giving her more space or start pursueing her more. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

[JoeCanada76]

Ex Is For A Reason. Keep It That Way. It Is Your Decision But In My Opinion It Is Better That An Ex, Remains The Ex. No Tiddly Winking Around.

Joe

[betty03]

My ex and I were apart for 1 year we wrer best friends and he kept after me and finall I gave in we are happily married for 2 years now. So I say go for it she might feel the same way you do