[JamesCH]

Going to try to keep this short and sweet. Just want to know what some of your opinions are about what to do in this situation.

I met this girl at a party about 3 months ago, nothing really happened just exchanged numbers and went our separate ways. I called her a week later and found out she had to go out of state to help her family with a family situation. Over the next few months we would constantly text and talk on the phone, flirting a lot with each other.

She got back in town a few days ago and we went on a date and had a great night. Ever since the date she has not even given me the time of day, always avoiding hanging out and just being flaky in general.

I don't know if I should confront her and see what is going on or just back off and see what happens. What do you guys think I should do?

[rosemcs]

Either she is playing hard to get, or just is not interested. It probably took her a date to realize how she feels. You can try and ask her to do something again later in the week, it won't hurt.

Usually if a girl is interested, she won't be too difficult to talk to after the first date.

[talaniman]

Leave her alone, move to the next!

[Enigma1999]

Hello James,

Maybe she realized on the date that you are not her type, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Maybe it's time that you move on. Don't take it personally.

If you feel that strongly about it, then maybe you you should just be up front and ask her.

Either way, I wish you luck.

[amicon]

Do nothing,just chalk it up to experience.

[Devorameira]

It's hard to say why she is avoiding you. It could be she's seeing someone else, could be that she just didn't feel any chemistry and isn't interested. You'll probably never know. Leave her alone and move on.