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albear · Dec 10, 2009, 06:23 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Whats funny bear is that this happened 6 months before my first marriage. 6 months before my marriage to Marta I fell from an 8 foot ladder to the concrete floor of my garage. I smashed 2 vertebrates in my neck, I almost didn't make it. The surgeon gave me a 50 / 50 chance to survive and he said that if I did I would be paralyzed. He worked a miracle, in that all I have is some pain in the right side of my neck and a slight numbness in my right hand.

Wow, I have two vertebrates from a dead man in my neck....(I hear voices.....'what?' hee hee).

Although this might be a warning so to speak, two accidents 6 months before each wedding but this time it was a blessing...so to speak...getting my lovely Marta.

A blessing disguise :)

I remember you or start mentioned something about you having an accident involving a ladder waaaaaaaaaaaaaay back near when I first met you.

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:24 PM

Originally Posted by albear

a blessing disguise :)

i remember you or start mentioned something about you having an accident involving a ladder waaaaaaaaaaaaaay back near when i first met ya.

Yes, that was it. She won't let me up on a ladder without her there... guess she loves me. :)

albear · Dec 10, 2009, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Yes, that was it. She won't let me up on a ladder without her there....guess she loves me. :)

No doubts there, she's going to be there to catch you if you ever fall :)

Alty · Dec 10, 2009, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by Tibetha

But im worried shes coming on to strong, she suggested that I go over to her house and meat her parents.

She's probably not allowed to date unless her parents meet you first. I know that was the rule in my house. It means her parents love her and she respects them and their wishes.

So, if you want to date her, you'll have to meet the parents. Put on a nice outfit, be respectful, and don't worry about it too much. Parents were kids once too. ;)

Alty · Dec 10, 2009, 06:29 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Yes, that was it. She won't let me up on a ladder without her there....guess she loves me. :)

It's because you're a klutz Stringy. ;)

And she loves you. :)

Tibetha · Dec 10, 2009, 06:31 PM

I am just really nervous, I don't want to do anything to offend her parents, or worse, her. Should I get somekind of gifts to them?

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

It's because you're a klutz Stringy. ;)

And she loves you. :)

No, I was just practicing my back dive...

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by Tibetha

I am just realy nervous, I dont want to do anything to offend her parents, or worse, her. Should I get somekind of gifts to them?

May I contribute?

albear · Dec 10, 2009, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

No, I was just practicing my back dive.....

What did marta give you out of 10? :D

Tibetha · Dec 10, 2009, 06:35 PM

Sure

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by albear

what did marta give you out of 10? :D

Ha ha, after she was sure that I was going to the doctor immediately... I got a scream or two...

Tibetha · Dec 10, 2009, 06:39 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

May I contribute?

Sure

albear · Dec 10, 2009, 06:40 PM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Ha ha, after she was sure that I was going to the doctor immediately...I got a scream or two...

2/10, :( you have to try harder next time stringer

Next time I'm expecting a backflip 360 spin with a perfect landing, and a bow to the judge (Marta) to show professionalism, got that :D

Alty · Dec 10, 2009, 06:43 PM

Originally Posted by Tibetha

I am just realy nervous, I dont want to do anything to offend her parents, or worse, her. Should I get somekind of gifts to them?

Just be yourself. Let them know that you're a nice guy, that you'll respect their wishes and will have their daughter back at a reasonable hour. Let them know where you're taking her. If you have a cell phone then give them the number so they can check up on her. Also ask for their number so you can call them in case something happens.

As for a gift. No. That's not necessary. You're just taking their daughter out on a date. Just dress nice, make sure you're showered, clean, hair brushed, matching socks on, shoes polished. But most important, be yourself.

Okay?

Alty · Dec 10, 2009, 06:44 PM

Originally Posted by albear

2/10, :( you have to try harder next time stringer

next time im expecting a backflip 360 spin with a perfect landing, and a bow to the judge (Marta) to show professionalism, got that :D

If he does a backflip Marta might leave, or die of a heart attack.

No back flip.

Feet firmly planted on the ground!

That's an order!

Marta, I'm on your side. :)

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:45 PM

Everything that Alty said to you is gold... take her advice...

As a parent and someone who actually started dating too soon I would say that being polite and courteous are very important.

Be very respectful, even saying 'sir or ma'am' when addressing he parents. When they enter the room, stand up, it shows respect... but don't forget to sit back down.

Be aware of your cleanliness and don't use too much after shave or cologne. Get a haircut before you meet them and even polish your shoes... yes.

When they speak to you listen carefully and pay attention. Answer clearly and don't mumble. And make sure that you are looking at them when you speak to them.

They may ask you some questions; 'how are you?' 'Where do you live?' 'how did you meet my daughter?' 'Where are you two going tonight?' Etc...

Be prepared to answer these questions. And a hint, ask her a little bit about her parents first before you visit. This will help.

First impressions are important... but relax... do the above but you can relax by telling yourself that it really won't be that bad at all.

Stringer

Tibetha · Dec 10, 2009, 06:48 PM

Im not going to be able to take her anyware, my method of transportation scares them, so I am going to be having dinner with them.

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:49 PM

Originally Posted by albear

2/10, :( you have to try harder next time stringer

next time im expecting a backflip 360 spin with a perfect landing, and a bow to the judge (Marta) to show professionalism, got that :D

Yes... got it. She would die from a heart attack Bear. It would be me taking her to the hospital... and besides... I promised not to go up again without her or my son there... gotta keep our promises.

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:52 PM

Originally Posted by Tibetha

Im not going to be able to take her anyware, my method of transportation scares them, so I am going to be having dinner with them.

Terrific... no expense on your part hee hee... kidding Tib... kidding.

The talk to her about the things that interest her parents. Talk to both of them too not just one... Try to keep the conversation going, silence may make you somewhat nervous. Ask them questions... about what they like to do for a hobby/s, where does he/she work? What do they do there? etc.

Stringer · Dec 10, 2009, 06:54 PM

Originally Posted by Altenweg

If he does a backflip Marta might leave, or die of a heart attack.

No back flip.

Feet firmly planted on the ground!

That's an order!

Marta, I'm on your side. :)

Actually I wish I still could, but I was told that I should be careful, even a fall on the ice could do me in... :rolleyes: