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    jdmlove Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 5, 2009, 09:07 PM
    My ex tell me she love me but won't leav her boyfriend
    I was with this girl for 4 years and I was always there for he but I had 2 move and a month later she got her sellf a new br and moved in with him so I moved back and left my fam just for her. It has been a year now she still tells me she lov3s me but won't get back with me
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    Dec 5, 2009, 09:39 PM

    Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous, it is not arrogant, it is not rude, it is not easily provoked to anger, it is not selfish, it is not happy with acts of unrighteousness, but rejoices in truth, love bears everything, believes everything, hopes everything, endures everything, love never fails... Does she really love you?
    Love is commitment- she does not love you, she broke up with you. Also, because she is with another man, and is telling YOU she loves you, she is being cruel to her current boyfriend, and is going behind his back which is sickening. She may feel like she loves you, but love is a choice, not a feeling. She doesn't truly love you, and on top of that, she doesn't truly love her current boyfriend by going back to you- her ex... This girl does not know what love is, she is bad news, you need to stay away and stop all contact with her.
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    Gemini54 Posts: 2,871, Reputation: 1116
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    Dec 7, 2009, 12:02 AM
    She found someone a month after you left and has been with him for a YEAR. She's told you she won't get back with you. It's pretty clear isn't it?

    She's moved on and she doesn't want you any more. Why keep holding the candle when the flame has gone out?

    Move on. There is no hope here.
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    JoeCanada76 Posts: 6,669, Reputation: 1707
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    Dec 7, 2009, 01:20 AM

    The writing is on the wall. You got played and your letting her play around with your emotions.

    She loves you. Oh yes, indeed that is why she is still with this other person.

    Time to move back in familiar settings and close to your family... Although maybe it is time to learn how to live life on your own. Start a life without obsessing over somebody that your not going to be with.

    Not now or in the future.

    I do not mean to sound mean about this.

    It is over long time ago. The minute you left she is with someone else. That is a sure sign to stay away.

    She does not love you.

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