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kourt-kourt212 · Dec 3, 2009, 04:58 PM

I'm 6 weeks pregnant . & I don't know what to do . I didn't mean to have sex it just happened . I'm really scared . & I didn't tell anyone . Not even my parents . I don't want to tell them cause there going to kill me . My belly hasn't gotten that big yet but its still a little flat but I'm wearing a little baggy clothes so nobody knows . But my teacher knows cause she found me in the girls bathroom throwing up every thing I had in my life . She's looking out for me until I tell my parent which I'm still not going to do . DAMN ! I'm sooo screwed ! I don't know what to do . PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME .

XOXOlove · Dec 3, 2009, 05:26 PM

You are going to have to tell your parents. That is the first thing you have to do. You can't just pop out a baby without them knowing! How are you going to support a child at 15 years of age when you are not even going to tell your parents? You shouldn't just let them find out on their own. Explain to them how you made a mistake and you need their help. What else could you do anyway?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 3, 2009, 05:35 PM

So many things, you have to grow up real fast, are your parents going to be mad, yes most likely very mad, but you know what they are going to be alow madder if they find out in 3 or 4 months from now because you have now not taken care of the baby.

You need to get into the doctor for some exams and start making plans.

So go in and tell them and get that part over with

justcurious55 · Dec 3, 2009, 05:38 PM

I agree with xoxo. You have to tell your parents. They may be angry at first. But you're their daughter. It might be easier to tell your mother first. And have her help you tell your father. Are you planning to keep your child? And where is the child's father in all of this?

jmjoseph · Dec 3, 2009, 05:40 PM

You should always be able to talk to your parents about things. Especially something as important as this.

How old is the father?

rockie100 · Dec 3, 2009, 05:56 PM

You are not the first 15yr old to be in this position, and will not be the last.
You do need support that a only a parent can give. You also need to get to the doctor. There are vitimins that you should have already been taking, and test that need to be run. Im sure your scared, but you now have to make some adult like actions. The more support you have, the less stressed you will feel. Then you can start taking care of what has to be done for you and the baby. You have options to be discussed with your family. And need to make plans as far as school goes as well.
Talk to your teacher or school counselor. They may have some thoughts as how you can approach your parents.
You should just make your mind up to do this now not later. Take care OK?

justcurious55 · Dec 3, 2009, 09:34 PM

If you're really worried about how your parents will react, maybe your teacher can help you arrange for them to come in and be there for moral support for you

kayasmommy4109 · Dec 5, 2009, 10:37 AM

A school counselor, can set up a meeting with you and your parents and help you tell them, or they can arrange for an outside party to be there for your support it is a very scarey thing tell your parents but in the long run since you are so young you need their help. So you do need to tell them so they can help you and your baby get the medical attetion you both need. It is very important to be honest with your parents and tell them that you understand your mistakes and you need their help do not try to "sugar coat" the situation because that will not help any one. Its time to put on your "big girl" pants and be a mother and being a mother started when your child was conceived and now it is your job to start protecting and taking care of your baby... best of luck!