[worrywort77]

OK I am 15 I had my wetdream when I was 13 and haven't cummed since and I am so worried I went to extremes like porn masterbaiting that's how worried I am my mom is a chef so I eat healthy and my girl is aprouching me to do it I need help please and no condoms she goes natural

[shazamataz]

If she is unwilling to use condoms then don't do anything with her.

Even if she is on birth control pills there is still a chance she could get pregnant.
At 15 I doubt you have enough money to pay for a child and the impending child support when your relationship fails.

Not to mention the fact that she might be carrying STD's.

Not a wise choice at all.

[worrywort77]

OK I could do condoms but if I didn't it would be bad cause well she`d think I didn't like her so yeah if we did it twice or more well you no and she is in pms ugh

[MYDEARFRIEND]

Unless you want to become a dad at your age then you need to use a condom or she will become pregnant or she could/you could give each other some problems like STD, LITTLE ONES AROUND YOUR FEET.

If she does not like it then find another girl you like and use condoms .

[ScottGem]

No one should be having sexual intercourse unless they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child. You are neither of those things.

[Fr_Chuck]

First you are too young to be having sex in the first place.

But if you did, using a condom is the only way to show that you respect them, and that you respect yourself and don't want to catch the 1000's of things out there she may have gotten from the last few who did not use a condom.

So strict rule ( unless you want the word DADDY to be a regular word)

If you are worried now how do you tell your parents you made a girl pregnant

[ohsohappy]

If the girl will think you won't like her if you don't have sex with her, then it's HER problem. She's a BAKA!

[justcurious55]

BAKA? What's that mean? I don't think I've heard that one before.

But in case you didn't get it from everyone else, always use a condom. You really are too young to be having sex but if you do, at least protect yourselves. Condoms are not "unnatural." refusing to wear one in this day and age, and especially at your age, is just downright foolish. And that's putting it nicely. Using protection has nothing to do with liking or not liking someone. It has to do with respect (as others mentioned) and being smart about things.

[ohsohappy]

BAKA? what's that mean? i don't think i've heard that one before.

but in case you didn't get it from everyone else, always use a condom. you really are too young to be having sex but if you do, at least protect yourselves. condoms are not "unnatural." refusing to wear one in this day and age, and especially at your age, is just downright foolish. and that's putting it nicely. using protection has nothing to do with liking or not liking someone. it has to do with respect (as others mentioned) and being smart about things.

It's Japanese. I only know a few words, that one is my favorite. :) It's another way to say fool, and depending on the context idiot. In this sense I meant fool.

[justcurious55]

In that case I completely agree ohsohappy!

[ohsohappy]

I just think that it's completely absurd that the girl would think he didn't like her if he chose not to have sex with her. She should feel happy and relievved that he would have enough respect for her not to do that. And he shouldn't be having sex with her for that reason. Sex is for mature people that know and UNDERSTAND (that's the main thing) the complexities that go along with sexual activity. Not enough people realize how important sex really is. And too many people have it for the wrong reasons. I made the mistake of becoming sexually active before I was ready, now I look back and think "man I really wish that I would have waited" It was one of the worst decisions I have ever made.