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    Nov 18, 2009, 02:51 PM
    My partner has lost interest in me
    Hi
    Please help me, I have been with ny partner for 5 years, he has never been over intereted in a sexual relationship but since we have started to live together its worse.
    He moved his 14 year old son in with us a year ago and this has almost destroyed our relationship because the child is seriously spoilt. Our relationship is poor, we never have time to ourselves, he never wants to kiss or cuddle and it has been almost a year since we have had sex. On occasions he wants me to mastibate him, but he has not even touched me in a year. I have put on weight I was a size 12 when we met and I'm now a size 14. He says he loves me and doesn't want any one else but has no interest in sex and when I try to talk to him about it he says he doesn't want to talk about it and life isn't based on sex. I am feeling seriously neglected as I miss the closeness and I just don't know what to do please help. Thank you
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    Nov 18, 2009, 04:00 PM
    If he has no interest, why does he want you to masterbate him:rolleyes:
    It sounds like he might just be lazy and only wants to serve his own purpose.
    If it's because you've gained a couple pounds than I don't think he is worth it.
    Something else must be in the mix.. the child, stress, illness etc.:)
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