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    codetta Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 9, 2009, 09:22 AM
    Will He Call?
    I had the most amazing date last night! It went so well, and I'm pretty sure the feeling was mutual. We shared a nice hug and then I left. I did say that I had a great time, thanked him (he thanked me as well), but neither of us mentioned doing it again or even calling. This was the only somewhat disappointing part of the entire night. Is it that big of a deal?

    We were both so polite, and I'm not sure if he realizes how great of a time I had. Really, he's so polite that I can't tell if he had a great time or not! I was thinking of not talking at all today, and then sending him a text saying "Just wanted to let you know that I had a great time the other night. Thanks for being so sweet." If I hear back from him, great, and if not, well, I still had a great date.

    Guys, would you appreciate that text? Or should I just wait until I hear back from him all together?
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    Nov 9, 2009, 12:58 PM

    If it were me I would just get on with my life,if he rings great,if not,well you still had a good time...

    Don't sit by the phone and wait... just go about your life.. he has your number,he'll call if he wants another date.
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    Nov 9, 2009, 01:01 PM
    Agree with red.
    Don't dwell on it. That's wonderful you had a good time and it went so well. But don't put your life on hold waiting for that call. If a couple days go by and you don't hear anything and you want to know what's up, then send the text saying thank you for the wonderful night. Leave it at that.
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    Nov 11, 2009, 09:41 PM
    I agree with what has been said above but I feel that a man would appreciate such a text. We have all these weird cultural rules about who needs to call. It really wouldn't hurt if you sent him that text. If he does not respond then I would move on and not look back.
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    Nov 14, 2009, 08:20 PM

    I am a guy and if I receive such a text from a girl, I would definitely call her and ask her to go on the second date. You know why? Because I am a kind of guy who would rather to see a small move from the girl (maybe I am insecure) but if the girl shows me one simple sign I will show her 100. this is just me.
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    Nov 15, 2009, 04:19 PM

    You did good. Just go about and do your thing and he'll call back.
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