[spidy_six]

Hi all,

Don't know might be I am depressed or what but I really loose every thing I want in my life. This is not the first time I am experiencing this I already lost lot of valuable things in my life and I am still losing. No matter whetehr it is Love, Job, Friends anything I want truly, Trust me I will loose it in couple of days. Is this common with every one or is it only happening to me?

Really can't take it anymore. Don't know whether it is because of my incapability to handle situations or my bad luck.

[wakeupcall13]

I am feeling very similar to you right now. Its been a tough year and I have lost just about everyone in my life this year, my health is in the toilet and am going bankrupt. I have been asking and asking for help and support, didn't get it and then people wonder why I snap. Sometimes I feel like good riddins... if you can't love me at my worst then you don't deserve me at my best. The only feedback I get is that I over react. Sure I do but some reassurance is all I need sometimes and that is impossible for people to give to me in my life. I have made myself miserable with comparing my life to others too. I'm scared of dying and my world is changing. Every time I turn around, something is happening, changing, being yanked or stolen away from me.
I did talk to an old friend today who really helped turn my attitude around some. He reminded me of my strengths, what I have overcome, that life changes and things can always be worse. I haven't felt good all year, even though I quit smoking, but today he reminded me of all I have to be thankful for and proud of that can not be taken away unless I let it. Just in the nick of time, because my shread of self worth was almost gone.
Sometimes we just need someone to talk to who cares and who will listen.

[wakeupcall13]

Sure every situation is different and everyone has their own battles.

Are you talking to them? Really talking? What keeps you from opening up to anyone who is around you?

Is there a specific situation you are referring to? What happened recently and how did you handle it?

I'm not a counselor or anything, just wanting to lend an ear to someone standing on the edge with me.

[Fr_Chuck]

you never loose real friends, bad times will weed out fair weather friends.

How we accept and deal with loss is all different, for those that don't put a high value in "things" it is easier

[Maggie 3]

This can help you if you want change in your life.
Your present character is made up of countless thoughts, beliefs, habits, entertained
And formed by you in the past. This characteris is expressed on your subconscious
Mind and is the cause of your present health, your present state of mind, and also,
Your present financial status. If you wish to change all or any one of them it can be
Done by renewning and changing your Thinking, Renewing Your Mind. Any statement
Continuously made by the conscious mind is accepted by the subconscious mind
Is a pattern by which to weave your future. Your present conditions are the results
Of your past thinking. You will be, what you are thinking today. It does not matter what your present condition may be , it rests with you to change it and make your future
Exactly what you would have it to be. There is no limit to the creative power of our
Mind. The way you can do this is by saying strong affirmations and repeating them
And believe them. Have a complete mind change and get in the habit of thinking
On what you are saying. Think only good thoughts on what you want not on what you
Don't want. Here is one affirmation, "I AM HEALTHY, STRONG, YOUNG, POWERFUL,
LOVING, HARMONIOUS, SUCCESSFUL, and HAPPY."
As you change your thinking you can get in control of your life and feel good.

Happy Thinking, Maggie 3

[spidy_six]

This can help you if you want change in your life.
Your present character is made up of countless thoughts, beliefs, habits, entertained
and formed by you in the past. This characteris is expressed on your subconscious
mind and is the cause of your present health, your present state of mind, and also,
your present financial status. If you wish to change all or any one of them it can be
done by renewning and changing your Thinking, Renewing Your Mind. Any statement
continuously made by the conscious mind is accepted by the subconscious mind
is a pattern by which to weave your future. Your present conditions are the results
of your past thinking. You will be, what you are thinking today. It does not matter what your present condition may be , it rests with you to change it and make your future
exactly what you would have it to be. There is no limit to the creative power of our
mind. The way you can do this is by saying strong affirmations and repeating them
and believe them. Have a complete mind change and get in the habit of thinking
on what you are saying. Think only good thoughts on what you want not on what you
don't want. Here is one affirmation, "I AM HEALTHY, STRONG, YOUNG, POWERFUL,
LOVING, HARMONIOUS, SUCCESSFUL, and HAPPY."
As you change your thinking you can get in control of your life and feel good.

Happy Thinking, Maggie 3

Thanks for you suggestion Maggie. I will try to do this and lets see what happens next