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    playgirl31984 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 8, 2009, 07:33 AM
    Ejaculates way to fast.
    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now ,he is almost 30 and I'm 25 and for some reason he still elaculates after like 2 minutes of sex and if there is oral before that he usually can't hold it he has tried products like man delay but nothing seems to work I never usually orgasm only on occasion I will,any advice?
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Nov 8, 2009, 07:54 AM
    Start slow,go back to basics...

    Just kiss for a while,if he becomes excited stop... make tea,do something else... after about an hour resume kissing... repeat step one... continue doing this for few days...

    Step two! Move on from there... the idea is too build up his stamina... the stop start method,until he can maintain an erection...

    It takes time and patience but it is achievable...

    If he has not gotten a check up perhaps on would be in order..

    Keep the lines of communication open,discuss ways of helping each other,reinforce that this is fixable,and it only becomes a big deal if you both make it a big deal.

    Work together,be a team.talk.
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    Synnen Posts: 7,927, Reputation: 2443
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    Nov 8, 2009, 09:04 AM

    If he KNOWS he cannot last that long, then YOUR orgasm should be HIS priority.

    Whether he uses his hands or his mouth, he should be using foreplay as a time to get YOU off--and sex for him doesn't happen until he does.
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    sylvan_1998 Posts: 156, Reputation: 45
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    Nov 9, 2009, 08:25 AM

    Okay, there are so many books out there for premature ejaculation. Go to Amazon. There are step by step books to help with this. Once my husband and I found them, it was amazing. Took a few months, but now I am the one who is like... okay... when are you going to finish :)

    Well worth the anonymity of the Amazon order
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