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    Nov 7, 2009, 06:50 AM
    Love after death?
    There's this guy who's my best friends brother... I always thought he was cute. And he thought I was cute.. I was too scared to ask him out or anything... then one day I got the bad news. He had been murdered, now I regret everything. I always go visit him. Lately I always have the chills and I always dream about him. In my dreams he talks to me saying "im sorry we can't be together, but trust me when we do ill be with you forever." Other dreams well just be together and there would be white surrounding us like clouds. I just wanted some opinions. Does this mean he's waiting for me in heaven? What do you think this mean?
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    Nov 7, 2009, 06:52 AM

    Perhaps it is your inner self realising that you made a mistake by not being with this guy.As for the dreams maybe they are just showing what you are thinking.
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    Nov 7, 2009, 07:33 AM

    Because you are talking to him and visiting his grave he is on your mind.. you imagined yourself with him,all of this is making an impact on your subconcious mind,and that is why you are dreaming about him... perhaps.
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    Nov 7, 2009, 12:33 PM

    I think it means that you were put in a terrible situation with the murder of someone on whom you had a crush, and who had a crush on you, and who was so important to his sister - your best friend. You didn't have a chance to try your feelings out with him and so they've taken on this whole life of their own. Perhaps he's looking over you and your sister. Think of him as your angel but he is not your guy - there is a life to be lived, and this loss will teach you and help you to know the right man when you find him, and will also help you to appreciate him as you should given how fragile life can be.

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