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ryaninvegas · Oct 29, 2009, 12:22 AM

So you and I broke up last week and its over... I tried and we have both been on either end of the "i'm breaking up with you" side...
[so then you initiate contact]

You text me at 2am on a Saturday night to tell me you have 2 of my shirts and want to know if I want them. If so you will mail them to me.
[i don't get the text because I'm asleep]
You say fine ill just toss them [15 minutes later]

[also]
You log into your myspace [the same early morning hour] like you never do and post that your happy with your new situation...
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Are you just being a witch or are you trying to see what I'm up to on a Saturday night
Like talk to me? See if ill give you more attention
Don't flame me for the immaturity in the games being played. She was extremely manipulative and its funny how it starts to make you the same way... ugly.

Besides the get over it part... what's she doing? Is it simple or is she trying to talk?

I ended up replying with just my address the next morning. Like she'll fedex a couple shirts.. cmon

tickle · Oct 29, 2009, 05:20 AM

If she can't come right out and say what she wants, ryaninvegas, it isn't worth the time replying to her. Yes, she is trying to see what you are up to without having the guts to come out and ask. Leave it. One immature person in a relationship doesn't work.

Tick

Fr_Chuck · Oct 29, 2009, 05:26 AM

She is or my opinion anyway, trying to merely keep you in pain, by calling or texting or emailing or Facebook, she is keeping her claws into you as long as you allow it.

Best advice, don't open the email, don't open the text and take her off as a freiend on Facebook.

Just move on

I wish · Oct 29, 2009, 06:24 AM

You already broke up, so don't read too much into it. Focus on healing from this experience and moving forward with your life.

ryaninvegas · Oct 29, 2009, 06:27 AM

She was terrible to me :( but I'm still so drawn to her. She captivates everyone in the room... N I got screwed... So will she keep reaching out? I want her to miss me :(

kappachino · Oct 29, 2009, 06:29 AM

She was terrible to me - you have answered your own question Ryan - move on to someone who will appreciate you - don't live in the past; here and now and also the future is where its at! :)

I wish · Oct 29, 2009, 06:32 AM

She's not reaching out to you. It looks pretty clear that she wants to move on with her life and she's just feeling guilty for breaking up with you, so she's just fixing her conscience. If she wanted to get back together, she definitely wouldn't be saying those things.

Stop over-analyzing everything she says and start moving forward with your life. Don't look back anymore. The longer you hold on to the past, the longer you will suffer.

tickle · Oct 29, 2009, 09:54 AM

Originally Posted by ryaninvegas

She was terrible to me :( but I'm still soo drawn to her. She captivates everyone in the room... N I got screwed... So will she keep reaching out? I want her to miss me :(

You are kidding, right ? You want her to miss you. What kind of advi ce do you want from us, ryaninvegas?

You are planning on going from the frying pan into the fire and she will screw you up again and again and you will go back until you have had enough.

Tick

talaniman · Oct 29, 2009, 10:14 AM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=5539062
If this is the same girl in your other posts, enough is enough.

If its not, enough is still enough.

No matter who it is, stop playing the "I want her to miss me" game and get on with your life.

amicon · Oct 29, 2009, 12:50 PM

Whileyou sit there wanting her to miss you, you are missing out on your life!
Forget trying to figure out what the text meant-start healing from the breakup.