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    Oct 27, 2009, 05:38 PM
    All that I'm after is a life full of laughter
    Hey everyone recently I've been looking for a relationship. I get sad sometimes because I feel lonely. I have some friends but friends aren't the same as relationships. I think I'm ready for one. Been enjoying the single life, flirting around it was fun but I think I'm ready to settle down now.

    Its hard finding someone right these days. Been studying really hard to keep busy and just been hanging out around my friends. Im not sure what to do? I suppose ill just keep studying until I graduate from college? And I heard it all before. "Love happens when you least expect it" "You dont look for love, love finds you" "Look too hard and love wont be found" lol

    I guess I was looking for a different answer than the typical. I don't even know what I expect to hear but ill know it is it when I read it. I hope I find the answer here. Thanks :)
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    Oct 27, 2009, 09:24 PM

    Keep enjoying the single life, and don't worry about settling down until a partner comes along who is as ready as you are.
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    Oct 27, 2009, 10:08 PM
    Hello E,

    Just continue to focus on yourself and graduate college. You find that special someone. Get your life together and the rest will fall into place. Don't be in a rush though. Good luck.
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    Oct 27, 2009, 10:26 PM

    I think finishing your degree should be your focus. Many have put relationships between, or before, school and reget it to this day.
    A person that has his goals strait is attractive to a perspective partner.

    It is very true that when you find yourself making the most of your life, all on your own, love comes knocking.
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    Oct 27, 2009, 10:29 PM

    You know, the right person is out there somewhere. And they're probably in the same boat you are. They're probably like "man, when is the right person gonna get here? im getting kind of lonely!" just enjoy the single life while you can, hang out with friends, finish college, and before you know it... they'll be knocking on you door and ready for a long term relationship too. Don't give up though, they're out there looking for you!
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    Oct 27, 2009, 10:49 PM
    Give me your name and number... im here... lol
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    Oct 28, 2009, 04:59 AM

    Thanks guys! I guess ill just finish up my degree only got a couple years left to go. I think part of the reason why I haven't found anyone is that I'm a little nerdy :) lol it just gets lonely sometimes but I guess I'm not in a rush.
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    Oct 28, 2009, 05:18 AM

    Just keep doing your thing, when it happens it will happen, if you try to force it you will only end up more lonely
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    Oct 28, 2009, 05:39 AM

    Most people don't even know how to enjoy life or go after their goals. You do, so that is a quality I hope you keep forever and a quality a lot of people will find attractive. I'm in the same boat as you as well. Just keep the focus on enjoying life and tackling goals, along the way a special person will show.
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