[turnerland]

I have been involved in a relationship with a married man, his wife just found out. He blamed it on me? What do I do? And I know it was wrong!

[Alty]

I have been involved in a relationship with a married man, his wife just found out. He blamed it on me? what do i do? and i know it was wrong!

What do you do? You learn your lesson and move on.

Of course he's going to blame it on you, you don't actually think that a man that would cheat on his wife would actually be honest with her, do you?

This is the risk you take when you get involved with a married man. You're both to blame and if his wife is smart then she'll realize that you're not the only one at fault.

[talaniman]

Disappear from his life, and learn your lesson. That's what you do.

[jordyadele]

The question I often ask myself is this: why would anyone want to be involved with another married person anyway?
Obviously you knew that he was lying to his wife. I'm sure you didn't jump into a relationship with him and think that he would go right to his wife and lay it all out. Of course not! It was a secret between just you two. He was lying to his wife. The woman he vowed to love and cherish the rest of his life.
What were you thinking? Of course you say now that it's wrong, but has it ever crossed your mind that this might not be a man worth being in a relationship with? Obviously he's not trustworthy, he lied to his wife!
And if he ended up divorced and you two got married, who's to say that he wouldn't do the same thing behind your back! That would be terrible! Put yourself in her position once and see how she might feel knowing that this man who she loves is secretly seeing another woman. I'm sure your heart would be absolutely broken.
This man has disrespected his wife, lied to his wife and then blamed the fault on you (which it wasn't all your fault, he should take the blame as well), he is not trustworthy and you should not pursue him any longer. Just move on with your life and find a man that is worth your love and attention.