[chiarra]

I´m 23 and I´m desperate.I cannot get pregnant.My housband is 41 he has already 3 children from his first marriage.His children are crazy about me and I also love them but they are not mine.I want desperatelly a child but for more than a year of trying I´m still not pregnant.I feel so lonely and I need help.

[shygrneyzs]

First of all, relax. I know that sounds like sappy advice, but when your mind is tensed about conceiving a child, your body responds. How often have you heard about a couple who tried and tried to have a child and could not, so they adopted a child. Then like magic, the wife conceived and there was another blessing to the home. Because the pressure to conceive was off and the couple was able to enjoy each other for the sake of enjoying, not for reproduction.

[J_9]

This is correct information. Relaxation is a key. Also, knowing your ovulation dates.

Have you been to your doctor lately? He may be able to guide you in the right direction.

[chiarra]

Thank you girls for the advice.Now I feel myself much better.I have no one to talk to about my child wish and that led to my desperation.I´m happy that I could share with somebody my pain.I haven´t gone to my doc lately I was afraid of what he would tell me.I preferred to expect anxiously every month rather to go to the doc.But now I feel myself strong enough to face the reality.Thank you for the help.