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JTS31708 · Oct 21, 2009, 11:25 AM

All in all its just downright wrong! What kind of 25 year old creep would be with a 14 year old? Definitely a pedophile!

slapshot_oi · Oct 21, 2009, 11:29 AM

Obvious troll is obvious

I wish · Oct 21, 2009, 11:38 AM

You can be friends, but leave the sex out of it nor matter what. The more I think about it, the more I can't understand why that's part of the relationship.

He's 25, he should know better. Your mom should also know better. Since they are both irresponsible, we're going to teach you to be the responsible one. If you want to be mature for your age, then take some responsibility. Keep the sex out nor matter what.

Alty · Oct 21, 2009, 11:45 AM

If this story is true, then your "boyfriend" is a pedophile and your parents aren't fit to raise fish.

This is illegal, immoral and downright sick!

You're 14, he's 25. You can't possibly have anything in common, so you have to ask yourself, why does he want you around? The logical answer is sex.

You need help, more then we can offer.

artlady · Oct 21, 2009, 11:48 AM

Originally Posted by slapshot_oi

Obvious troll is obvious

It sounds absurd but I have heard of worse on this site and in life.
It seems outrageous that a Mother would allow this type of behavior but then again there are some horrible parents in this world,who have no business procreating!

I think it is better to err on the side of caution and assume this is a possibility.
Perhaps we can get this young lady to contact an intelligent adult who will help her to find an environment where she is safe.

kctiger · Oct 21, 2009, 12:09 PM

Originally Posted by ayu2310

What can i do?..

IF THIS IS IN FACT A REAL SITUATION!

I am not going to tell you what you can do, I will tell you what you should do, and what you need to do!

Call the police immediately. This is a situation for law enforcement to deal with, NONE of us can offer the kind of help you need.

You are in a completely dysfunctional household and this can only get worse. This is extremely close to a "Charles Manson" type of situation where you are taught to think this behavior is both acceptable and normal. You have been raped, plain and simple, and your mother and her boyfriend are both accessories to this. I can only assume you are American judging by the way you act. Also you realize you are able to be married at 18, which is a clear law in America of the age of a minor to becoming an adult.

Point in hand however, I doubt you would post something like this without knowing it is obviously wrong. You clearly know it is wrong as you preemptively tell us not to be rude. I suspect you wouldn't post this unless there was a motive behind it. So I guess my question to you is this: What do you want us to help you with? Are you asking us to condone your relationship or are you asking for a way out of this?

XOXOlove · Oct 21, 2009, 12:18 PM

Honestly, I had to refresh this page twice because I couldn't believe what I was reading! I don't understand why your mother would think this is okay. It is just bizarre. I think just the fact that you brought this up shows that you know that there is something wrong or abnormal about your situation. It sounds like you don't really want to marry your boyfriend either... you should just get out of it now and get help. You might like it now but your situation will probably get ugly. It is not normal for a 25 year old to like a 14 year old.