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    grap Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Oct 10, 2009, 10:37 AM
    Relationships problems
    Hi,my name is gabby.not long ago I was going somewhere and I meet a guy,he ask my fro my number I give it to him.and we star talking still then.so we been going out and stuff.BUT he always tell me that his phone have problems,he went to court,he went to his country.and if I see him today am going to see him like almost 1 months again.and not to long his fiancé call me.and tell me about everything you know.so all those things he been telling me was lies.and they going to get marry and stuff he stay at that girl house and .not at the begging but now I see I have a little bite feelings for him.and I don't want to deal with it anymore... please tell me how to get over him
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    #2

    Oct 10, 2009, 10:51 AM

    There is not magic formula or potion.
    It will take time. Busy yourself.
    Do you have hobbies, friends? It does not seem as though you have known him for that long. It may hurt now, but it will pass.
    When you start to miss him, think about how he lied to you, that may help. The jerk factor can help you get over him.
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    Oct 10, 2009, 02:45 PM
    You fell for a lying, cheating, jerk, so getting over him will take time, so leave him alone, and get busy with what you were doing before he came along.

    Be a lot more cautious, now that you know all guys aren't telling the truth. It happens to us all, and we all learn, as you will to.
    But now I see I have a little bite feelings for him.and I don't want to deal with it anymore... please tell me how to get over him
    Don't see him ever again, and if you do, tell him to take a hike.
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    Oct 10, 2009, 04:58 PM
    Relationships problems
    Am sorry that's the other parts of my story.he tell his fiancé he doest know me at all.am the one who's been calling him.he told me he have a house and cars.they are all lies.the house its for the other gilr so is the car.they been calling me and they me they going to get marry and stuff.I've been praying God to help me forget about him.he call me and say I love' lesa 'and am going to marry her soon don't call me anymore.and am like' who are you I don't even know your real name leave me alone... I don't know I feel like killing him guys but God knows everything.and the worse thing is.I don't have friends downs here so I cannot get a girls night out.so I just stay home and you know try to have fun .and forget about them.hope he cheat on the other girl too.so she can feel my pain.and she have 5 months with him.and I have for 4 months with him .guys... so please you're my only friends for now help me.deal with this -hole... help me guys please



    I don't know what to do,he talk about me with the other girl like am a bicth... and if I know he had a fiancé I would never,never go out with him.and now I don't trust no guys none of them,that is like a bad dream for me.I don't know but GOd and you're will help me... and he was like awwww I don't trust you nation... he told me Jamaican never like Haitien...
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    Oct 13, 2009, 06:01 AM

    Only got part of the story here but it seems you already know what to do, just leave him alone, if he calls don't answer or get a new number, just drop him

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