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    Oct 9, 2009, 09:54 AM
    How do I tell him that he stinks?
    Hello!

    I'm a little embarrasses asking this question :o but here goes... What is the best way to tell a guy that their penis/balls stink and they need to take a shower without sounding mean??

    Thanks!
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    Oct 9, 2009, 09:58 AM

    If you are getting close enough to smell him, then you should also be at a point in the relationship to be open with your feelings. Perhaps don't go down there anymore and he'll get the hint.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:07 AM

    Lol you are right. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I just feel bad for telling him that. I have a soft heart
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:18 AM
    There is always making washing his genitalia part of the fun. If he wants to know why, you can be honest about the smell and that this seemed like a good way to take care of the problem while also getting some more play in.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:20 AM

    I don't get what you mean Cat??
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:28 AM
    Get a bowl/container of warm (not too hot) water, soap washcloth and soft towel. Bathe his penis and testicles.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Cat1864 View Post
    Get a bowl/container of warm (not too hot) water, soap washcloth and soft towel. Bathe his penis and testicles.
    Just take a soapy fun and teasing shower together beforehand.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:38 AM

    Yea we've taken showers together before. But he doesn't like to take together a lot because for one our shower is way too small for 2 people.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 10:54 AM

    I don't think he would take it to heart. I have never been told this but if I was told so I would take much better care of them and wash them to avoid the situation again in the future. Especially if he is a guy who enjoys head.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 11:12 AM

    Lol no he's not the type. He doesn't care much about getting head. But if I'm going to have sex with him I want his penis to be fresh. Ya know what I mean?
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    Oct 9, 2009, 11:17 AM
    Try this... "I ain't going near that thing until you take a shower....PEEEEEE EWWWWW"
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    Oct 9, 2009, 11:27 AM

    LMAO.. thats a funny one! You guys are great!
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    Oct 9, 2009, 07:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Try this....."I ain't going near that thing until you take a shower....PEEEEEE EWWWWW"
    Actually that's pretty much what I do with my partner...

    I just outright tell him or make a joke out of it, he doesn't get offended if he knows washing it is going to get him head.
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    Oct 9, 2009, 08:08 PM

    How old are you?

    John
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    Oct 12, 2009, 05:08 AM

    I have had this issue where we had a very long day, and night... neither of us showered. So I reckon I smelled bad, my girl just said "dude, that stinks... lets go jump in the shower"

    I took no offense as we know each other well, and if you two know each other well... he won't get offended either.
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    Oct 12, 2009, 05:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by shazamataz View Post
    Actually that's pretty much what I do with my partner....

    I just outright tell him or make a joke out of it, he doesn't get offended if he knows washing it is going to get him head.
    Works even better if you can do it with a good Wanda Sykes immitation...
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    Oct 13, 2009, 12:14 PM

    Thanks you guys for the advice. I feel better now lol
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