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    Oct 9, 2009, 05:07 AM
    My First Love
    When I was in elementary school I had a huge crush on this guy who when I first met I hated and don't know why but we ended up going out well I wouldn't call it dating cause it doesn't really count when your that young but anyway me and this guy held hands kissed etc.. And through out years on end were still friends but don't really see or speak to each other that much and we used to be really close but people change you find and meet new people but even till this day which would be 7 years since I first met him and I still have this love for him that I can't explain even when we run into each other the odd time when we look into each others eyes its almost like just always a spark there just like there always used to be when we had our little crush.. Anyway what I'm getting at hear is I love the guy I've had boy friends and yes in time I've fallen in love with them but its just not the same what should I do should I tell this guy how I feel have I gone insane and just need to move on from the situation I feel I can't be complete without him even though its not like we would get together anytime soon but in the future all our friends that see us always say that we are perfect together and we might not be together now but in the future when our paths cross will be together forever from then on so should I wait? Should I just move on and what ever happens happens do I sound like a creeper am I insane? Anyone have any answers for me I'm going insane
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    Oct 9, 2009, 08:15 AM

    Its perfectly normal to have strong feelings and memories for years to come of someone who was your first love. I think we all do that, but the trick is to pay attention to the now, and leave the past in the past, so we can move forward and grow, and learn. How old are you?
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    Oct 12, 2009, 08:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Its perfectly normal to have strong feelings and memories for years to come of someone who was your first love. I think we all do that, but the trick is to pay attention to the now, and leave the past in the past, so we can move forward and grow, and learn. How old are you?

    I'm 19 and have been in love with this guy for 10 years
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    Oct 12, 2009, 08:40 PM

    It's unlikely you are both the same people you were 10 years ago. Why not accept they're memories

    If you're both single I guess you could give it a shot. Hang out and see what happens but no expectations
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