[5254]

All right, so lately I am completely confused about the situation me and my boyfriend are in. We have dated for over a year now and things just don't seem as they use to. I was always so sure that things would end up OK, but now I am having my doubts. We both have some pretty busy schedules and only see each other on the weekends now. We have had little arguments here and there but nothing big until lately. He broke up with me because we had a fight about something so stupid that I can't even remember what it was. He then asked me to take him back and I did, but now he is saying that even though we are "back together" we are still on a break. I am so irritated with him lately that I just don't think its worth it anymore, but at the same time I still want to be with him...

I don't know if we should stay together anymore, because sometimes the fights just aren't worth it.

Please help!

[rockie100]

You might want to check if he is seeing other people. You can't be on a break and be back together at the same time. If you don't think its worth it anymore than by all means put an end to it. You can stop the waste of time for both of you. He is being fickle.

[winding200]

It does not sound so good. If he is into you, he will not pick up a fight for minor stuff and break up. He seems tired of you, and playing around with your emotion.
Do not take him seriously if you do not want to be hurt.
I guess you guys need honest talk. Good Luck!

[Cat1864]

If there was more to the relationship, I would suggest working on communications, however, you don't have a relationship. What you have is him keeping you unavailable to to see other people (people in relationships are off-limits) while he does what he wants because he isn't in the relationship.

End the games. End the fights. End the confusion. End the 'whatever it is'.

You deserve someone who is not going to play games with words and feelings. No person deserves the type of behavior he is showing.

Give yourself healing time before even thinking about getting into another relationship. You don't want to drag the baggage from this relationship into the next one.

[talaniman]

Instead of arguing you should be asking what he means by back together, but on a break. It takes two to define a relationship, and your not doing your part. Your just going with his flow to keep something your having a problem understanding. Lack of honest communications will doom what ever this is you think you have. Its not a healthy relationship, that's for sure.