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L85 · Oct 5, 2009, 09:10 AM

Hi All,

Something very strange keeps happening, there is this really nice girl I keep seeing working in my local supermarket. Basically on 4 occasions now when I have made eye contact with her she gives me the biggest smile! Now I don't know whether she is just being friendly or if she like me or not. I have never spoke to her but I know people that know her so I asked someone what she was like and they said she was a bit of a flirt- but still would she still smile if she didn't want me to approach her? Any advise would be great :)

Fantana · Oct 5, 2009, 09:38 AM

I would approach her. If she is someone you see on a semi-regular basis but you aren't meeting in a social setting i.e. a friend's house or a gathering, you're going to have to make the move otherwise you'll probably never get a chance to talk to her. If she is smiling at you, and is making eye contact then it is probably safe to say it won't hurt to go up and introduce yourself. There's a good chance she'll admire your confidence. If it doesn't work out, then put it behind you and be happy that you know, because it is much better than just wondering all the time.

Fr_Chuck · Oct 5, 2009, 09:43 AM

OK, assuming you are not in JR high, and sorry your post sounds little like that, but then they would not be working in store.

But there is a real trick to dating, it is called talking and asking someone out. The "perfect" girl could walk past tomorrow and if you just let her walk without saying something, she just walks.

So why have you not went over and said hellp, even asked her for a soda or coffee or something after work or the weekend.

L85 · Oct 5, 2009, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

ok, assuming you are not in JR high, and sorry your post sounds little like that, but then they would not be working in store.

But there is a real trick to dating, it is called talking and asking someone out. The "perfect" girl could walk past tommorow and if you just let her walk without saying something, she just walks.

So why have you not went over and said hellp, even asked her for a soda or coffee or something after work or the weekend.

Haha no I'm not that young anymore unfortunately I'm 24 and I reckon she is about 19, anyway I've bottled introducing myself so I've added her on Facebook, now to see if she accepts me...

DerelictHerds · Oct 5, 2009, 02:46 PM

Originally Posted by L85

haha no im not that young anymore unfortunatly im 24 and i reckon she is about 19, anyway ive bottled introducing myself so ive added her on facebook, now to see if she accepts me.......

DO IT IRL.

Seriously. Do it in real life.

xoxaprilwine · Oct 5, 2009, 03:09 PM

Yes, agree, in person is the best! Not only that but you might introduce her to friends or things (posts/blogs) current or from the past you don't want her to know... it is a little too soon if you haven't said hello in person... but make sure you say "hello" from the "human, real-person you" and not through the computer.