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CraZlife · Oct 4, 2009, 11:43 AM

Hi!

So, I have this friend. He's gay. And last time I saw him he asked if I wanted to have sex with him. I almost said yes but decided no. What would it mean if I did have sex with him??

tashic · Oct 4, 2009, 01:55 PM

I think that your friend might be having questions about weather or not he really is gay. If you had sex with him it could end up hurting your friendship. Just tell him that you are flattered that he wants his first time with a girl to be you but that you are uncomfortable with this. Good luck.

shazamataz · Oct 5, 2009, 12:17 AM

It would mean that you both have no morals.

smitty92 · May 1, 2012, 12:46 PM

It depends on how you're looking at the situation. I would say that if you're thinking he's going to "turn straight" for you or realize he's not really gay or whatever, you're probably a bit delusional. But if you acknowledge (really acknowledge to yourself) that he's looking to experiment with a girl and is comfortable with that girl being you because you're friends, and you find that you're okay with that, then that's your decision. I don't think shaz is right in saying it means that you have no morals. Plenty of people nowadays have "friends with benefits," and while that can get really awkward if you put too much pressure on it, it can be a way for two single people to enjoy sexual release while they're between partners, and is at least a bit safer than a one night stand with a stranger.