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    Sep 29, 2009, 10:50 AM
    Need help with a marital Problem My husband he is incarcerated he married while he was in jail now two years later today he is showing signs of be an insecure man. Down to having people in his family check to see if I have a myspace page and making copies and sending them to me. To be honest I fed up with the way things are going what should I do.. need the readers help. ASAP.. I am a woman who is struggling working two jobs to provide for my family.

    Also I'm the bread winner in the family. I'm back in collage to better my education so I can get a better job. To Me my husband just don't understand the functioning world on the outside. He is also mad that I am unable to financially send him money. To support him. I've explained to him on numerous times that I Just don't have the money I. I have two kids not by him and I'm struggling to keep afloat Literally I am. I even Filed chapter 13 Bankruptcy to save my House.. the thing is I feel I should file for divorce and end it NOW. Could I get some helpful advise...
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    Sep 29, 2009, 10:58 AM
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    Oct 1, 2009, 10:50 AM

    File for a divorce and end it, as I can't imagine why you got into this in the first place.
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    Oct 1, 2009, 10:54 AM

    File for divorce and make a good life for yourself and your children.
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    Oct 1, 2009, 11:00 AM
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    the thing is I feel I should file for divorce and end it NOW. Could I get some helpful advise...
    Hello Need:

    Yeah. It didn't work out. End it and move on.

    excon
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    Apr 22, 2010, 09:19 AM

    I am also married a man in prison. He's been down for 19yrs already. He also tends to be insecure by natural cause because he's a man and has very many limitations to this relationship. But he is also considerate because he understands I am on my own out here. So you have to be the judge of that and know whether he is putting your needs, desires, and feelings first, or his. And if it's his, then you may want to reconsider what you really have with him.

    That's if you haven't already. I mean, it's been about a year by now (LOL)!! Good luck!
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