[bobbyoh]

I'm 15 and this girl that I like who is 13 lives down the street in my nieghborhood. She also goes to my church and I first met her on a youth group camp.

I kind gave her the wrong frist impression. When we first talked (it was at camp) she already new me and she asked if I remembered her name. I am very bad with names and I told her that I didn't remember the name. She told me it and then we went on to whatever we where doing. Acouple of days latter (still at camp) eveybody was waiting for breakfest and I saw her sitting outside talking with another guy. So I decided to go up and join the coverstion. Well I forgot her name again but luckly she wasn't too desturbed with it and we talked (by this time the other guy was left out). We got to know each other a little bit. I told her that I raced motocross competitvely. When I said this it was time for breakfest. We got up and headed into the building. While we where on our way she said "i think people who race motocross are hot." luckly I kept my cool even though it cought me off guird and I said "well maybe ill invite you over one day and we could ride togethar" (she doesn't ride dirt bikes). So we split up and hanged out with our own groups.

2 or 3 months have past and I told my dad about her earlyier and my dad and I were coming home from riding dirt bikes. We saw her mowing her families lawn and my dad backed up (so that she could see the dirt bikes) and talked to her. I was very embarresed.

The next day during church she came up to me while I throwing a football with some friends. She asked if I was embarressed and I said yes. I didn't give her any attention so she left, which I recretted later on. So after church I called her up if she wanted to go jet skiing, I couldn't get a hold of her. So my family went to see a movie. When we went to see a movie she called us back. By the time we came back it was to late to do anyhting.

So 2 or 3 weeks have passed and I was going to ask her if she wanted to do halloween with me. So I called her up and talked to her for a while but the conversation wasn't good. She didn't seem to excited to talk to me so I didn't ask her to go halloween.

But at halloween night when I was trick-or-treating, I happened run into her group that she was trick-or-treating with (which was all girls) and she invited me with her. So we flirited and I got to go to her house. Everything was going right and the night ended.

That weekend I spraned my angle and I told her about it on Facebook. She said, "that sucks i was goign to ask you early if you wanted to do something". So I thought wow I she might just be interested in me. So I texted her to ask if she wanted to go see a movie. Later I found out her parents took her phone away from her for bad grades.

Then I see her on aim and I talk to her. But I had to keep the coversation alive by asking a lot of questions. She wouldn't have talked to me if I didn't ask questions. I also told I texted her if she wanted to see a movie and she said "oh that would have been fun..." I don't know if she was saying that to be nice or if she really meant it.

I told my mom this and she said don't talk to her about anything, she knows you are interested and let her come to you. So now it has been about a week since I haven't talked her. But during that time I have figured out by visiting her Facebook that there is this guy my age that talks to her on the phone regularly. He also lives nearby and goes to the same church. I think he likes her. So now there is compition.

Now I am thinking about asking to see a movie a week from now. What should I do? Do you thinks she it interested? And what about this other guy? Thanks and reply

p.s. excuse my spelling

[aromero565]

Ask her! Your young and there's nothing wrong with dating... Hint:girls usually wait for the guy to ask, if she declines her lost. Girls are confusing though get used to it.:)

[ashleysb]

You should definitely ask her. From what you say, she sounds interested. But you have to remember she is a bit younger than you so she probably doesn't have much experience with boys or dating. Just meaning that she is probably thinking the same thing you are, "Why doesn't he just call and ask me?" And as for that other guy, don't worry about it. Just be yourself and have fun, and she will have a much easier time choosing who she would like to be with. ;)

[talaniman]

Never sweat the competition, it takes focus off the prize. Ask her out and have a great time, be yourself. Dates are supposed to be fun.

[bobbyoh]

Well what about what my mom said? Let her come to me. She said I ask enough, that I don't want to seem despret. Do I wait to ask her?

[Geoffersonairplane]

well what about what my mom said? let her come to me. she said i ask enough, that i dont want to seem despret. do i wait to ask her?

YES, Your mum speaks perfect sense, don't seem desperate!

It won't work, let her come to you if she knows you like her!

Mind you, she is quite young and probably quite shy about these kind of things..

Right, lets turn this around, Ask her out to the movie, GO FOR IT! You got nothing to lose.

If she says "no" or she is busy, just act like you are o.k about it, then let her come to you! Personally, I think this will work. Just have fun, don't get too hung up on your feelings for the girl, just go in this in a casual way, then she won't be put off by anything too ummmmm, Heavy!!

(and I did not mean that in a weight sense)

[bobbyoh]

thanks.

I have good news though. Today she (with her friend) just randomly out of the blue called me today to see if I wanted to hang out and walk around the neighborhood. Which I did. So now is the perfect time to ask her if she wants to see a movie right?

[Skell]

Don't let fear hold you back. Ask her.
Just promise me one thing.

When your with her always make it fun. Make her enjoy hanging around you.

Make her laugh and laugh yourself.

If she enjoys her time with you and has a lot of fun then she won't be able to wait to hang out with you again.

So good luck and enjoy. Just take it slow and don't go getting too serious.

Your still a young man with lots of time left to enjoy his youth.