[amicon]

Ok-if they phone less text less break dates and generally become less attentive and/or become less available.there s my little list.

[talaniman]

I have been wondering a lot about this lately. What is the key for a long, wonderful relationship? How do you stay with the one you want?

Get someone who wants you as much as you want them, and learn to work together, through honest expressions of feelings, and communications.

Originally Posted by Jordan Christin
Why does he keep saying that?

He may be a bit insecure, and so are you, about the relationship, and I guess it makes you see small things as bigger and more important than what they are.

Hard to relax, and enjoy, getting to know each other, when your paying attention to your own issues, and not each other.

[lilmisschrissy4]

You will be able to tell, you conscience will let you know, if you are having doubts that he is becoming to dislike you, you will be able to tell with the look in his eyes, the tone of his voice when he talks to you will change, sexual encounters will probably decrease, a big sign would be if he told u that u two really don't have anything in common, that's a nice hint to you that he is beginning to dislike the relationship. Sorry if this is happening to you. Good luck!

[88sunflower]

The fact that you're here and asking is sign enough. Don't you think?

[ZoeMarie]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ey-386694.html

Is this the same person you're referring to?

[Jordan Christin]

No

[dincher]

When they start to make themselves less and less available.

[Romefalls19]

If you come here asking that type of question, that's usually a pretty good sign as to things aren't working out too well

[talaniman]

When you are an option in there lives, and they are not making time for you.

[Jordan Christin]

Threads merged

Anyway I really hate my ex soooooo much now!! We have had this weird on and off dating thing but now I am sick and tired of it so I broke up with him today. He was going to break up with me anyway because he wants to focus more on school cause he thinks freshman year is so important and that he is getting B's so his parents are yelling at him cause he is a straight A student. He also says that he has a lot on his mind and that he won't have time for me even though he hangs out with his friends and stupid gay reasons like that. I am just so tired of him hurting me like that and yet he wants me to wait till the end of this school year just to go back out with him! Ugh I hate him so much that I hope he dies!! Anyway I don't like him anymore but he is getting me really mad cause he is starting to say things about me behind my back. Can anyone tell me how I can take out my madness??

[jmjoseph]

Are you the things he calls you? If not, then ignore them. Stop talking to him, and go live your life. Life is so much more than fighting, and on/off with a jerk. Don't waste anymore time with this guy. It will challenge your sanity, and make you "hard". A good relationship will come along when you least expect it. With a gentleman, not a punk. Good luck to you.

[Jordan Christin]

Thanks so much but I am just wondering how I should take out my anger cause I have so much I just don't know what to do with all it

[Just Dahlia]

Kick boxing! That is the best way! Don't kill any one.
You can go to a gym and connect with something or you can just kick the air until you fall over. :D

[Jordan Christin]

Lol well I have tried that and it really doesn't work for me. I just like want to go up and slap him

[Jordan Christin]

Anyway I have no idea what to do, it's so confusing. My ex is just so weird cause I have no idea if he likes me or just wants to use me. He told me the other day that he likes to kiss me and stuff but he hates all the school/public stuff. And he wants to be "really good friends," and kiss and stuff. So is he saying that he hates to be with me? And yet it seems to me that he likes this same girl still even though he knows that she doesn't like him, but he looks and talks to her like he does still likes her and yet he told me he knows it won't happen with her so he says he has moved on. And yet he treats me like in front of his friends. I feel used , so what should I do?

[none12345]

He is using you. Stop all contact with him and don't talk to him or be around him. If you do, he will use you more.

[Jordan Christin]

That's what I thought but it's so confusing cause at first he seems like he is really into me and then it gets out of hand at school or something. Cause he looks at this girl in a way that he likes her, but yet when me and him are together its like different.

[none12345]

That's what i thought but it's so confusing cause at first he seems like he is really into me and then it gets out of hand at school or something. Cause he looks at this girl in a way that he likes her, but yet when me and him are together its like different.

A guy that likes you will never look at another girl as more than friends. Obviously he is playing with your head. You got to do what is best for you and not him. I am sure there will be tons of other guys that will treat you right. Leave this guy behind, and don't contact him anymore would be the best thing to do.

[Jordan Christin]

K but I don't get it when he says that he is over her and yet does that stuff, Am I just imagining it or am I believing that he can have someone better then me?

[amicon]

Is this the guy from your previous posts?