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    Claire58 Posts: 75, Reputation: 3
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    Sep 21, 2009, 08:51 AM
    My ex and I can't get enough of each other
    My boyfriend and I broke up like 2 weeks ago, he came to town this weekend and asked me if I could pick him up from the train station. I did, and on the way to his friend's house, we ended up making out.
    We have this crazy chemistry between us which first attracted us to each other, but we weren't really in love and I didn't like the long distance fights so we broke it off. But anytime we get together it's like WILDFIRE!! Like we can't keep our hands off each other.
    What should I do, it's killing me!
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Sep 21, 2009, 08:54 AM

    Quit hanging out with him. That is what most normal people do after a break up. You can do that, or get back together. Random hook ups though aren't the way to go.
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Sep 21, 2009, 08:55 AM

    That's lust.. plain and simple chemistry..


    Relationships are not build on lust alone!

    You could try no contact,you both broke up for a good reason I assume,other wise you would still be together.
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    Sep 21, 2009, 09:51 AM

    The reason you're having such a difficult time to get over him is because you keep seeing him. Every time you see him, you reset all the progress you've made from the last time you saw him.

    Leave each other alone until you've recovered from the break up. Otherwise, you're just going to drag out the healing process.
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    Sep 21, 2009, 11:10 AM

    Next time, take a bucket of ice and put it on yourself and on him. That should calm you down. A cold ice cream could work, but beware when it melts.
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    Claire58 Posts: 75, Reputation: 3
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    Sep 24, 2009, 05:48 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by paxe View Post
    Next time, take a bucket of ice and put it on yourself and on him. That should calm you down. A cold ice cream could work, but beware when it melts.
    LOL I'll try that

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