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Depressed in MO · Jun 8, 2006, 02:11 PM

"The hardest part for me from all this was that she didn't tell me."-Stormy69

See-I told you, this mother says it all. Don't know the status of your parents' relationship-but go to your mother.

Stormy69 · Jun 16, 2006, 09:38 AM

Hoping for an update Ice angel.. Please let us know how things are going

terra112 · Jul 19, 2006, 05:18 AM

Originally Posted by ice_angel

ok. im not sure what to do. i mean i dont even know how to tell my mom. the father knows, but i mean i know that im going to show soon and im not so sure if i want to tell her or just let her find out when i start showing.......im so confused.:confused:

Your 16 u haven't even finished school yet what are your plans for your future you can't even tell your parents about this it's a grown up act and it means you need to make a grown up decision everyone thinks that abortion is a horrible thing but I don't believe that it is every woman has the right to her own choices and I think that you should consider all options everyone is going to have there own opion or belief but your decision should be for you and the unborn fetus not having a baby at such a young age gives you a lot more future options and having a baby puts all those options on hold for about 16 to 18 yrs think about your life the fathers life and then make your choice if you choose to not have it then no one but you and the father need to know if you have decided to have it then your parents and his have the right to know all about it good luck and I hope everything works out for you and you are happy with the decision you make for yourself!!

Mommy2juliana · Jul 24, 2006, 01:11 PM

I disagree with terra112. Just because she is 16 doesn't mean she can't provide for that Child. Sure she is afraid to tell her Mother that she is pregnant. It was hard for me to tell my mom the times I got pregnant. The first time being 17 (I miscarried that one). I was a little after 18 when I got pregnant with my 2nd and carried her to full term. Her Mother may be dissapointed, but abortion is NOT an answer to her problem of not being able to tell her mom. Do you know what they do to a BABY when it is aborted? Do you know what kind of Psychological problems the mother will be faced with after knowing that she KILLED her BABY? Have you seen pictures of babies that are aborted? I'm guessing not, if so you are one sick person because I can't believe anyone would be willing to do this kind of ****. If she doesn't want the baby, she should give it up, not KILL it. My friend had a baby when she was 16 and has done a fine job raising her son AND finishing school. And ANOTHER good friend of mine had her baby at 17 and has finished school AND is currently attending a community college AND has a job. So she can do it. It's called encouragement. Ugh... I'm done with this one.

Depressed in MO · Jul 25, 2006, 06:01 AM

Originally Posted by Mommy2juliana

I disagree with terra112. Just because she is 16 doesn't mean she can't provide for that Child. Sure she is afraid to tell her Mother that she is pregnant. It was hard for me to tell my mom the times I got pregnant. The first time being 17 (I miscarried that one). I was a little after 18 when I got pregnant with my 2nd and carried her to full term. Her Mother may be dissapointed, but abortion is NOT an answer to her problem of not being able to tell her mom. Do you know what they do to a BABY when it is aborted? Do you know what kind of Psychological problems the mother will be faced with after knowing that she KILLED her BABY? Have you seen pictures of babies that are aborted? I'm guessing not, if so you are one sick person because I can't believe anyone would be willing to do this kind of ****. If she doesn't want the baby, she should give it up, not KILL it. My friend had a baby when she was 16 and has done a fine job raising her son AND finishing school. And ANOTHER good friend of mine had her baby at 17 and has finished school AND is currently attending a community college AND has a job. So she can do it. It's called encouragement. ugh... I'm done with this one.

"...but abortion is NOT an answer to her problem of not being able to tell her mom. Do you know what they do to a BABY when it is aborted? Do you know what kind of Psychological problems the mother will be faced with after knowing that she KILLED her BABY? Have you seen pictures of babies that are aborted? I'm guessing not, if so you are one sick person because I can't believe anyone would be willing to do this kind of ****. If she doesn't want the baby, she should give it up, not KILL it."-You have no right to say this. Well you do because of freedom of speech, but this is a very touchy subject in which a variety of people have different opinions and this is something that should be posted privately to the individual you are attacking or maybe on an anti abortionist web site"

Wicca_moon_03 · Jul 30, 2006, 08:00 PM

Fine stormy... believe whatever you want...

BrittanyLivers · Feb 22, 2007, 10:58 AM

Well girl I am 16 as well... and I want to be pregnant as well I don't know why but I do and I don't know what to do to get their, I mean I try everything if you know anything that would make it better please tell me

kholloway · Feb 22, 2007, 12:08 PM

Brittanylivers, go to walmart, go to the toy section. Select the water baby of your choice. That is all you need to handle at 16. You do not need to have a child. I can not believe that at 16 you think that you will be able to take care of a baby. It is one thing to have the situation thrust upon you, for instance if the condom breaks, your bithcontrol fails, or he tells the pull out method works (even though I don't think it's right to have sex at 16). But to actually try to get pregnant... I really don't know what to say to that. You would be bringing a child into the world when you are still a child yourself, and don't have the money, a full high school education or anything to help provide for the child. Does that seem like something a good mother would do to their child on purpose?

ghost56 · Feb 25, 2007, 05:21 AM

Sit your mom doen and tell her you have a problem and need her help. I would be devastated if any of my girls had got pregnant and felt they couldn't tell me. Yes they may be mad at friet, but when they gety over the shock they will help you better than anyone else can, you need your moms support right now. Good luck.

kaylapppp · Apr 14, 2007, 08:12 AM

Hey
Im 16 and 6 months pregnant. I told my mom when the day I found out. Actually I got my boyfriend to tell her. She really took it better then I thought she would. Now I have found out I am having a baby girl and I'm due augest 1. Honestly my mom has gotten very excited about being a grandma. She has bought her more dresses and little outfits then I thought were even out there.
Don't be afraid to tell your mom. You will be surprised how she reacts. She was never perfect when she was a teenager.
Good luck and have a happy pregnancy no matter how far you are. I love being pregnant. I love my belly to and feeling her move is the most amazing thing.

GoodLuck.
P.S. She will want you to tell her before she finds out on her own. I know I would. It will bring your relationship closer with your mom and trust me you will need her help:o

kayleigh1989 · Nov 28, 2007, 02:14 PM

Originally Posted by ice_angel

ok. im not sure what to do. i mean i dont even know how to tell my mom. the father knows, but i mean i know that im going to show soon and im not so sure if i want to tell her or just let her find out when i start showing.......im so confused.:confused:

Its best to tell your mother she might not be happy with you but she might help u though it.its happened to lots of my mates. Hope it goes well for you

bamaGirl13 · Sep 23, 2009, 10:32 AM

I don't have an answer for you. I have a question.
My daddy is trying to break me and my boyfriend up because he found out we were engaged..
My boyfriend thinks if we have a kid..
It will make him not break us up.
He also thinks that having a kid will make us both grow up..
We both need that.
What do you think?

bamaGirl13 · Sep 23, 2009, 10:33 AM

I don't have an answer for you. I have a question.
My daddy is trying to break me and my boyfriend up because he found out we were engaged..
My boyfriend thinks if we have a kid..
It will make him not break us up.
He also thinks that having a kid will make us both grow up..
We both need that.
What do you think?

xxohheykaylaxx · Oct 7, 2010, 10:01 AM

Hi, I'm 16 and I'm pregnant. Somebody told my parents I was pregnant and I thought they would be pissed but they sat down and talked to me and asked if I was pregnant I said I don't know. Then they were like what are you going to do if you are. Then they said I was to young to have sex.
Then they made a doc app. For me next Monday.