[jannie456]

Just thought I'd ask for your opinion. I'm really mad at someone who I still have feelings for.It funny how the more you have feeling for them the longer or mad you are at them if they do something that is wrong. If you have no feelings you don't care.. Has anyone experienced this what do you think.

[Justwantfair]

Yes it's very common and really just makes sense.

Have you ever heard the line "There is a thin line between love and hate"?

When you let someone into your life, you are letting down your guard and making yourself vulnerable, if they hurt you, you feel violated and angry.

But unless you wish to live under a rock and hate the world to protect yourself, pain is an experience.

[I wish]

It's because you care that you are angry with them. Furthermore, if you care about someone, you tend to have higher expectations of them. In turn, you will be disappointed more easily.

If you didn't care about the person, nothing they would do would make you angry, because you wouldn't care less what they do.