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    jane555 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Sep 17, 2009, 08:03 AM
    Should I try or leave it alone!
    Ok this cop stopped me the other day for my inspection sticker on my car. He was
    Really sweet and seemed really nice. My question is I really liked him.. How could I try to
    Find him without being a stalker any ideas...
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    Sep 17, 2009, 10:31 AM

    Find the precinct you were stopped in and go by the office. Tell the officer at the desk you have a question you wanted to ask an officer that stopped you earlier and describe him if you don't know his name. Then thank him for letting you off the hook and ask him if he has any interest in seeing you after work. It's ballsy, but it's the honest and best way.
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    Sep 17, 2009, 10:41 AM

    Have you considered he might have just being doing his job?

    He might be married or have a girlfriend!

    There's loads of nice good looking men out there,maybe try someone you don't have to track down.
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    Sep 17, 2009, 10:58 AM

    He is a police officer. They, contrary to popular belief, are required to be polite. I would let this one go. I think you may be reading a bit too much into it.

    If you really want to find out, the officer's name should be on the ticket. You can go from there. Still, I think you should let it go.
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    Sep 19, 2009, 02:56 PM

    Leave this alone.
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    Sep 19, 2009, 02:59 PM

    I'd leave it alone. It's like any other service-related job, he's supposed to be nice. I work at an Ice cream place, and I have to be nice. Just because I smile at a man, does not mean that I am interested in him.
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    Sep 19, 2009, 02:59 PM

    I can already imagine how cute he is, but remember- a lot of them are cheaters - no offense to cops
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    Sep 19, 2009, 03:05 PM

    That's a pretty baseless accusation to police officers..
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    Sep 19, 2009, 03:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Sariss View Post
    That's a pretty baseless accusation to police officers..
    Haha, He/She probably gets His/her info from movies and TV. :)
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    Sep 19, 2009, 04:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    Haha, He/She probably gets His/her info from movies and TV. :)
    Lol, well I'm a she :p

    But the point is that my brother is a police officer - was one in NY and now he's one in LA, and he'd tell me stories about those guys being with two or three girls at the same time, and then with a wife at home!
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    Sep 19, 2009, 04:02 PM

    Because 10 or so police officers = everyone. :P

    I've known, and still know many, who are honest people.
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    Sep 19, 2009, 04:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dincher View Post
    lol, well I'm a she :p

    But the point is that my brother is a police officer - was one in NY and now he's one in LA, and he'd tell me stories about those guys being with two or three girls at the same time, and then with a wife at home!
    Well I agree that that's pretty messed up, But you can't put such a blanket statement over a category of people like that. I assume your brother is NOT one of those men. :)
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    Sep 19, 2009, 04:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    Well I agree that that's pretty messed up, But you can't put such a blanket statement over a category of people like that. I assume your brother is NOT one of those men. :)
    Well you know, at this point who knows. I'm not with him 24/7. Just cause he's my brother, doesn't mean I don't have my doubts :rolleyes:
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    Sep 19, 2009, 04:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dincher View Post
    Well you know, at this point who knows. I'm not with him 24/7. Just cause he's my brother, doens't mean I dont have my doubts :rolleyes:
    I shouldn't feel the urge to laugh, but it's kind of funny. :)

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