[xxxrosexxx]

This is going to be like an essay... its kind of complicated Lol

Okay I'm 16 and me and my ex boyfriend have been out like 5 time but I was always the one to finish it. He treated me like a princess but sometimes got to clingy which was one of the reasons I finished with him. But.. evrytime we finished I would realize that I still love him and id made a mistake and he Always! Took me back. Last year we finished for good and haven't been together for about 9 months now but over the last couple of months I can't get him out of my head! Every time I walk past him he will look at me and I can't help but smile and he makes me laugh and I feel like I miss him... but am I just being stupid because I don't have a clue how he feels about me

Omg! I need some advice please
What should I do?



Thanks X

[Justwantfair]

Dating is about learning about yourself. Learning to appreciate the good things, learning to work through bad, seeing problems before you are in too deep. Knowing who you are, what you want and knowing how to blend two people without either person losing themselves for a relationship.

You have plenty more learning to do at sixteen and although you have rekindled a likeness, you already know that the relationship will not last. Sometimes although you care and enjoy someone's company, that doesn't make them good boyfriend material. Enjoy your feelings and possibly start a quality friendship with him, but I would let the idea of dating go, you already know the result.

[xxxrosexxx]

I was totally hoping someone would not say that but I kind of already know your right...

Thanks :)

[talaniman]

Take more time for you to get over him, and its harder when you have to see him every day, for sure, as your reminded about the good feelings, but keep in mind the reasons you gave for ending it, in the first place.

It takes time but eventually the feelings fade, and don't hurt so bad. Keep him at a distance and don't worry about being best friends just now.

The less contact, the better, for a while.