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    MJisastar Posts: 35, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 2, 2009, 11:47 AM
    My boyfriend's Internet always "goes off" while we talk and it's really ANNOYING
    Okay my boyfriend is in another country so we can only talk on the Internet. When his Internet actually DOES work , we have sweet conversations and he seems to love me and all I love him, but right when we're talking, usually when we're having particularly sweet conversations, his Internet just dies and he goes off and it doesn't get fixed until the next day. Look, I'm just getting annoyed at this and any advice on dealing with this?
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    Sep 2, 2009, 11:49 AM
    Maybe have a little patience. Its not his fault if the system crashes. Just be happy you have this form of communication. 50 years ago someone would think you were crazy if you mentioned this.

    Its not his fault so don't take it out on him.
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    MJisastar Posts: 35, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 2, 2009, 11:53 AM

    I get paranoid he doesn't love me or doesn't want to talk to me. It happened in the middle of quite a passionate conversation.
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    Sep 2, 2009, 12:01 PM

    I'm guessing it's the same guy as this one: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ed-376673.html

    He's too old for you. Find someone your own age and closer to home.
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    Sep 2, 2009, 02:31 PM

    Nice guess but totally WRONG.
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    Sep 2, 2009, 03:06 PM

    Did you ever meet him in person? Why can't you call each other?
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    Sep 2, 2009, 03:25 PM

    You might want to try keeping the guys in order, as it seems you have a few guys going on in your life. Also, it's the internet, as a IT Tech, it's unpredictable, relax and if it's that big of a deal, then CALL him.

    Also, you might not want to be so rude to people who respond to your post.
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    Sep 2, 2009, 03:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by MJisastar View Post
    Okay my boyfriend is in another country so we can only talk on the Internet. When his Internet actually DOES work , we have sweet conversations and he seems to love me and all I love him, but right when we're talking, usually when we're having particulary sweet conversations, his Internet just dies and he goes off and it doesn't get fixed until the next day. Look, I'm just getting annoyed at this and any advice on dealing with this??
    You're 15, it's not that surprising that you get annoyed about things like this.
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    Sep 6, 2009, 09:57 AM

    Its annoying, but what can he do about it? Change companies??
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    Sep 6, 2009, 03:25 PM

    Either this is as IWish said and it's the same guy, or you've managed to fall seriously in love again in one week. But that's a different story...

    I can understand why you would find this annoying. However, there's a difference between being annoyed with him for something he possibly can't help, and just being annoyed over the situation. Perhaps he is annoyed about it as well.

    So the real question doesn't seem to have to do with him, but rather with his internet connection. Have you ever just spoken to him about it, just asked if he knows what the problem with the connection is? Could be his ISP stinks or bad lines or possibly other things. But it needs to be dealt with from his end. (Maybe he's the one who should be posting.)

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