[vincything]

I just lost my virginity about one mouth ago.. and I had sex about 5 or 6 times but I never felt any form of pleasure. I feel the penis in me but I don't feel pleasure. The most I ever feel is a really bad abdonimal pain during and after sex Sometimes I even feel the pain around the anus area.. is there something wrong with me?

[HelpinHere]

Nope, it just means you are sleeping with immature little boys who have no clue how to please a woman.

Do you masturbate?
If so, then I recommend you make your boyfriend make you feel that good before you even allow him to take his pants off.

If not, then I recommend you start, then follow the above directions.

Also, not all girls can even get pleasure through penetration, except by "G-Spot" stimulation, and unless you learn about yourself and learn how to give yourself pleasure, you can't expect your boyfriend to know how. You know yourself better than anyone, so you can't expect anything else.

Take control, and refuse him pleasure if you don't get yours.

I hope you are using "protection".

[shazamataz]

It took me quite a few times to feel any pleasure from sex with my first boyfriend.

It takes a while for you to learn each others moves and for your bodies to get in sync with each other.

It's not a case of in-out-in-out, and it automatically feels good.

If he does something that you like make sure you tell him!
He's never going to learn what works for you if you don't communicate with him.

[little_n_lost]

I happen to be a very lucky lady who has a very VERY good partner :P

It is a known fact that the main sex organ for a female is the clitoris and around 96% of women can climax through clitoral stimulation and unfortunately around 15% of omen can't climax at all.

Helpinhere is right a lot of women can't feel pleasure through penetration without hitting the "G spot" which should be on the front wall of your vagina so one of the best postitions to reach this is "doggy style". But again not all women unfortunately have a "G spot" so you'll have to do some experimenting together to find out.

I suggest talking about sex and being open with your partner. There is nothing worse than boring sex. Read books and find self help tips on the internet and try them out. Sex doesn't have to be serious it should be fun and enjoyable.

The abdominal pains may be normal depending on the size of your man's member and the position you use. If it keep occurring try using some lubricant. If the problem still persists with every form of sexual activity or every time you have intercousre seek medical advice.