[mandakrishna]

Hi All,

To introduce myself, I am Krishna born to a traditional INdian family. I am 25 years old. I had a relationship with a guy for about a year and now that we have broken up. It was just a simple emotional relationship and we had no physical relationship. Actually, physical relationships are not really allowed before marriages in tradional families in India. Anyway this is not the point.
I'll come to the point. I asked him that we had to think of the marriage and asked him to talk to my parents, but he did not do that. I I told him that this relationship is not working out and broke up with him. But still he is trying to contact me. He is miss calling me too.
I want to forget him and get on with my life.
Should I ask him not to try to contact me? How could I get over this withouht hurting him and not making a big scene?
Please advise me.
Thankn you

[britEl]

You have to straight up tell him you don't want to talk to him, delete him out of your life so there is no temptation and forget about him, it is what it is and to be honest I think it is not worth it.

[helpmepleaseee]

I agree, a complete ceasing of communication is the best medicine for a breakup.. it will help him too.

[I wish]

You broke up for a reason.

If you keep talking to him, you will continue to have false hope and over-analyze all the little details. It's better for you to cut off contact, block him out of your life so that you can move on without him influencing your feelings.

It's tough, but with time, you will get over him.

[talaniman]

You cut all contact with him, and eventually you get over the attachment you formed together for a year.

[MissRissa]

You don't have to tell him you don't want contact with him anymore if you don't want to. You can just simply ignore him and I'm sure pretty soon he'll get the point. But if you do think it will help, you can tell him you don't want contact with him. I think either way would be fine as long as they both end up with you having no contact with him at all.