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Alty · Aug 23, 2009, 11:32 PM

Originally Posted by BlackVY

Hmmm I see what you mean... I guess only time will tell...

But I know they are a huge responsibility and I don't know if I could do that right now. I'm about to get married so I think I'd want to enjoy the married life for a while before I start the life with kids...

Good idea.

Hubby and I were married 3 years before I got pregnant. We planned it that way.

I always wanted kids, knew I'd have them. To each their own. If it's not for you then it's not for you.

How does your fiancé feel? You really need to discuss this before the wedding, make sure you're on the same page.

HelpinHere · Aug 24, 2009, 12:01 AM

Aww... I really touched someone! :)
(NOT in that way, get your mind out of the gutter! :mad:)

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...sh-389545.html
Go read! I feel proud! :)

Unknown008 · Aug 24, 2009, 01:14 AM

LOL! HH, you could have spared me of all the skimming to see what you were talking about :p

Anyway, *thumbs up* Good papa to be! :)

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ml#post1941019

That's how you go directly to the post :)

HelpinHere · Aug 24, 2009, 01:15 AM

Hehe, ooh, I know, I just thought I'd torture you a little! :D

Anyway, I would have started it at this post:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ml#post1940104

Because she says thanks for thinking about my feelings, but I was honestly not caring about her feelings when I posted originally, :p

Unknown008 · Aug 24, 2009, 01:18 AM

I've followed that thread, and knew the posts you were talking about should be 'down under' (not the aussi down under! :eek:) and had only two or three to read ;)

HelpinHere · Aug 24, 2009, 01:22 AM

Lol, I got to get to bed, but I'll be on tomorrow, so...

PS: I may have gotten a part time job, tutoring for the school year that starts tomorrow! (Well, actually, since it's past 12am, it's considered today, but whatever)

Unknown008 · Aug 24, 2009, 01:33 AM

You got a job? Hey, congrats! :)

And have a good sleep, seems that you'll have a hardworking day tomorrow! :)

adam_89 · Aug 24, 2009, 06:10 AM

Originally Posted by Stringer

Way too bloody and really crazy Adam, in my humble opinion.

Have you seen it Stringer?

I watched it and yes it is crazy and pretty bloody. Showed more than I thought they would.

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 06:56 AM

Originally Posted by adam_89

Have you seen it Stringer?

I watched it and yes it is crazy and pretty bloody. Showed more than I thought they would.

Tarantino is a weird and somewhat scary person who loves massacres , I think he is mentally unbalanced. Have you ever watche dhis eyes during interviews?

So no Adam, I haven't seen it and really don't plan to.

Did you like it?

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 06:59 AM

For those of you about to enter the castle, enter with caution. I have a wonderful story.

I eat wings a lot here at work and junk food, whatever I can get delivered. Well I had a bad of garbage on the floor Friday with some leftovers and stuff in it but I was running late and just wanted to get home. I twisted the top shut and left it for this morning rather then bringing it to the dumpster. Well this morning I stop to the store for a yummy bacon and egg sandwich. I was starving. I come in turn the lights and whatever on. Breakfast in one hand while I bend over with the other to grab the garbage. I had some things to put in it and then I was going to get rid of it. I untwist it and there were hundreds of 'effing maggots!! I jumped about 10 feet in the air because they fell all over the floor. I dropped my breakfast and nearly threw up what I was able to eat. I just froze. Gross! I had to wait for the guy I work with to get here because I was not touching that bag! He got rid of it for me and under the bag there was a swarm of them just crawling all over. I vacuumed. Don't know if they will die in the vacuum bag or not. But I don't see them anymore. Oh my god I had never seen maggots in garbage before. What a way to start my work week!

Ha ha Sorry for you all eating breakfast, lunch or dinner. Heee heee

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 07:03 AM

Originally Posted by 88sunflower

For those of you about to enter the castle, enter with caution. I have a wonderful story.

I eat wings alot here at work and junk food, whatever I can get delivered. Well I had a bad of garbage on the floor Friday with some leftovers and stuff in it but I was running late and just wanted to get home. I twisted the top shut and left it for this morning rather then bringing it to the dumpster. Well this morning I stop to the store for a yummy bacon and egg sandwich. I was starving. I come in turn the lights and whatever on. Breakfast in one hand while I bend over with the other to grab the garbage. I had some things to put in it and then I was going to get rid of it. I untwist it and there were hundreds of 'effing maggots!!! I jumped about 10 feet in the air because they fell all over the floor. I dropped my breakfast and nearly threw up what I was able to eat. I just froze. Gross! I had to wait for the guy I work with to get here because I was not touching that bag! He got rid of it for me and under the bag there was a swarm of them just crawling all over. I vacuumed. Dont know if they will die in the vacuum bag or not. But I dont see them anymore. Oh my god I had never seen maggots in garbage before. What a way to start my work week!

ha ha Sorry for you all eating breakfast, lunch or dinner. heee heee

:D Well, I don't think that I will have breakfast now... maybe just a cup of coffee... whatcha think?

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 07:10 AM

Its making me crack up now. Oh believe me I won't be leaving a garbage bag in the office all weekend with some food in it again. What the heck! I think you will be fine. Just don't read it again and I won't repeat it.

How are you doing anyway?

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 07:28 AM

Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Its making me crack up now. Oh believe me I wont be leaving a garbage bag in the office all weekend with some food in it again. What the heck! I think you will be fine. Just dont read it again and I wont repeat it.

How are you doing anyways?

Staring at my screen...

Imagine, if you had just ate that...

No, I know what happened, flies laid eggs in the food over the weekend and the maggots are... baby flies!!

Anyway... :eek::eek:

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 07:34 AM

Yep that's what I am saying to, anyway...

How was the game over the weekend and the beers?

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 07:44 AM

Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Yep thats what I am saying to, anyways...

How was the game over the weekend and the beers?

Actually I felt so bad for my son. He is a great athlete and a good ball player, but he was having a bad day at the plate. The whole thing was a tournament to determine the championship for the 'E' Division in slow pitch softball.

It all started at 11 am and they kept winning, 10 teams involved. They eliminated all the teams went to the final game and lost. Then since they had not lost up to this point, they had one more chance with one more final game. Were ahead by 2 runs until the last inning... lost by one run. We stayed the whole time... nine hours and that sun was HOT!

He was so depressed, he plays second base and he had made an error that gave them the winning run, my heart went out to him. But he had all the girls and his wife hugging him to make him feel a little better. Kid's a double for Tom Cruise.

I really felt bad because he and I have such a long history in baseball and football. I couched him for 14 years, he is damn good, and we took the DuPage County championship when he was 18. So, I really felt for him when he came up to me after the game and said 'sorry Pop, I tried.' Love that guy.

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 07:49 AM

Originally Posted by Stringer

I couched him for 14 years,

Hmm maybe instead of couching him you should have coached him? Ha ha Just picking, sorry. Made me smile.

Well in the end it sounds like they still did amazing. Look how far the team went. I say its still a good job well done. But I know my heart would be sinking if it were my son out there. I would have cried big tears for him. I guess that's when the saying comes in its not always about winning. But isn't it sometimes?

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 07:58 AM

Hmmmmm... I don't know if you have been following my thread/s about my spellcheck not working on AMHD... but this is an issue that is really frustrating me... a lot. I love you, but please don't go there... K? :)

You're right to a point, after a kid learns to 'play the game' and learns ro be a team player, get along with everyone... then they need to learn how to win... to me that is part of life...

I understand hon, learning all those things are very important, however so is learning how to be a winner also... life is short, why not give it your all and know the feeling of winning also.

Now, that being said, I am not a b*st*ard either, he is a compassionate man, a good husband a great father and I am very proud of him for that and I tell him that constantly.

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 08:10 AM

No I have been reading your spell check issues. I am not a good speller either and I back space a lot. Funny just over the weekend I down loaded ispell, I guess that's what its called. It works on this so I installed it for my longer posts. Hopefully it's a safe program.

I understand where your coming from for sure as far as winning at everything. I just have to teach my son differently. He is such a perfectionist. Its terrible. He will be 6 next month and he has to have it perfect the first time or he gets so upset. No matter what it might be it has to be perfect. Which is great. But I am trying to make him understand things take practice and it doesn't have to be perfect to be good enough. Sometimes failing can open other doors for better things. But of course being as young as he is he doesn't understand my adult speeches. I give them anyway.

Stringer · Aug 24, 2009, 08:28 AM

Originally Posted by 88sunflower

No I have been reading your spell check issues. I am not a good speller either and I back space alot. Funny just over the weekend I down loaded ispell, I guess thats what its called. It works on this so I installed it for my longer posts. Hopefully its a safe program.

I understand where your coming from for sure as far as winning at everything. I just have to teach my son differently. He is such a perfectionist. Its terrible. He will be 6 next month and he has to have it perfect the first time or he gets so upset. No matter what it might be it has to be perfect. Which is great. But I am trying to make him understand things take practice and it doesnt have to be perfect to be good enough. Sometimes failing can open other doors for better things. But of course being as young as he is he doesnt understand my adult speeches. I give them anyways.

Actually I am not too bad of a speller, it's just that when I type my fingers do not always do what my brain is trying to tell them to do (quickly)... does that make sense?

As usual, we are on the same page with all this. I am just saying that they also have to know what winning is too. :)

I have some success with my company, however I lost two others that I had in the past, not all because of something I did or did not do... but I learned a lot in the process and I use it daily. Especially what I have learned over the years about people, not just business and sales.

88sunflower · Aug 24, 2009, 08:46 AM

There are many lessons in life that's for sure.

Well I am off to the gym for an hour. I will be back in a bit. Keep this place in order would you? No horse play in the castle while I am out. No maggots!