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    blue22 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 20, 2009, 07:00 PM
    Depressed want a baby more anything
    I am married and since I known my husband before we got married and we were engaged we have tried to get preganant. It has been over a year of trying and no luck. I am 22 years old and I have been told by my doctors that I am perfectly health. I have been off the pill go on three years so what is wrong with me. I have tried everything; home redemies, eating healthier, excising, prenatal vitmins. I have stop smoking and drinking, different postions, have sex less because I read it can decrease my chances. A pillow under my butt and not going to the bathroom right away after sex, not thinking about while having sex, so what am I doing wrong? Please please please help me! :(
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    Aug 20, 2009, 07:07 PM

    May not be you. It can be him. He should get tested.
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    Aug 21, 2009, 02:32 AM

    I agree. Your husband should have a fertility test.

    But keep in mind, pregnancy does not always come easy. My hubby and I have had unprotected sex for 3 years and no baby yet. (we aren't trying, but its easily done apparently). We are also both fertile. (and I am very young 22 also).

    Keep trying, and get him checked out.

    How old is he, if I can ask? That could be affecting it.
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    Aug 21, 2009, 07:56 AM
    REmember that it's not always the woman that has the problem. Your husband needs to have his sperm count checked.
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    Aug 21, 2009, 11:47 AM

    Neither one of you may be doing something "wrong."

    Are you sure you know when ovulation is taking place? OPKs (ovulation prediction kits) are available at pharmacies and online. Sometimes its just an issue with timing. Good luck!
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    Aug 21, 2009, 11:56 AM

    Have you talked with your DOCTOR about this?

    That's a really good place to start.
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