[batatagirl]

I've become too sensetive these past 2 years facing too much problems and verbal and physical abuse that hurts me too much :(

[justcurious55]

What's your question?
The more details you give us the more we can help you :)

[batatagirl]

My question is How can I get over my sensetivity and become stronger??

[justcurious55]

Have you gotten away from the physical and verbal abuse yet?

[batatagirl]

Sad but true, no I haven't I've been going through it these past 2 years and it's making me lose my confident, I feel lost!

[justcurious55]

How old are you? What sort of relationship is this? Are you dating or married to someone abusive? Are you living with an abusive relative? We aren't psychics. We need details if you want help. I want to help you, as I'm sure others will want to help. But no one can help you if you don't tell us what's going on.

[batatagirl]

My story is long I'm 31 married the second time long story behind it too, I'm a mother of 3 two are living with my X rules of my country fathers keep the kids and my 3 child is with me because he's from my second marriage, my first marriage was a typical arrange marriage I was 18 it lasted 10 years but then I got my divorce my second marriage was falling in love and here is what I got out love, I lost my two kids and everyone for him so at the end I can be verbally and physically abused :(

[justcurious55]

Rules of your country? What country are you in? That may also influence the advice.

[batatagirl]

I live in Saudi Arabia :0

[batatagirl]

The country is Saudi Arabia :mad:

[justcurious55]

Hm. I don't know much about saudi arabia. So please be patient with me if I suggest things that just aren't an option there. :)
Is leaving an option for you? If so, that would be my first suggestion. If that's not an option though, is marriage counseling? It sounds like at one point things were good between you and your husband. With time and counseling, maybe things could go back to being good.
Here in the u.s. domestic abuse is illegal and it's not all that hard for a wife to get a restraining order and press charges against her husband. What are the laws like in saudi arabia? (I hear a lot of middle eastern countries are making progress and there are more and more laws to protect women but then sometimes I here that in some places women still have almost no freedom or rights.)

[batatagirl]

Thanks, I would prefer to LEAVE but one thing I know he'll take my son and he's only one year enough my Xhusband took my other 2 kids, I'm trying to stand on my feet , my case is too long to write but thank you so much for your advise it's nice to know life still has good people that care for others at least this gives me hope I can be strong once in a life time :)

[justcurious55]

I'm sorry I can't do more, but I'm glad to hear that at least you're feeling stronger.