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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:04 AM
    Husband doesn't love wife, wife wants him out
    A friend of mine told his wife that he doesn't love her anymore. They have two children (one has cerabal palsy). The wife wants him out of the house, but he wants to stay to help with the house, kids, etc. He definitely doesn't want to leave on bad terms. He just felt that he couldn't NOT tell her how he felt. He felt that that wasn't fair to her.

    I'm afraid that if he leaves it will be considered abandonment in the court's eyes and once that happens he will be treated unfairly. He lives in Michigan by the way. Should he stay or move out? What are the legalities of the situation?
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:11 AM
    Husband doesn't love wife, wife wants husband out
    A friend of mine told his wife that he doesn't love her anymore. They have two children. The wife wants him out of the house, but he wants to stay to help with the house, kids, etc. He definitely doesn't want to leave on bad terms. He just felt that he couldn't NOT tell her how he felt. He felt that that wasn't fair to her.

    I'm afraid that if he leaves it will be considered abandonment in the court's eyes and once that happens he will be treated unfairly. He lives in Michigan by the way. Should he stay or move out? What are the legalities of the situation?
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:12 AM

    No it isn't considered abandonment

    If they can not go to counselling and work things out then he can move out and they can work out a divorce and child custody and support issues.

    Love is about commitment it isn't about love feelings. He really should consider going to counselling and try pinpointing WHY he feels he doesn't love her anymore. It could even be a medical problem with him.
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:17 AM

    Please do not do multiple posts

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ut-386442.html
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:27 AM
    I only have one post - once I posted it under marriage I got a message saying that it should be posted under family law, so I unsubscribed from the marriage forum and kept my question in family law.
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:31 AM

    That's not how it works
    Your post is still there
    The moderators have to combine them

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ut-386442.html
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    Aug 13, 2009, 06:41 AM
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