[angel_3101]

Hi ,

I am 31 year old girl from india. I am too depressed, tensed about my life , I personally think that love is most beautiful thing of this world, but why got has not given anyone to love me the way I fall with someone. It has happened with me 2 times and I am very alone.
I love to a married man who has 2 kids and wife, I have still not fulfilled his expectations as other married man wants, but he has kissed me and I like everything, I truly in love with him.
Sometime when I see him I feel I should get married but where I will bring the happyness and love in me for my would be husband,. what will I do with these years which I have spent like this in love. How can I stop talking to him..

I am unable to focus on anything don't misunderstand me as I love a married man.
Guide me further.

[phillysteakandcheese]

You are probably a "side dish" to this man... something he needs to add excitement to the life he's grown bored having with his current wife and kids. I understand you are building a dream about what life "could be" like, but honestly, even if he leaves his current family to be with you (which I highly doubt), how long will it be before he grows bored with you, and looks for someone new?

When you are lonely, it's easy to compromise your values and desires in exchange for simply not being alone anymore. That's a mistake that just leads to unhappiness.

If love is the most beautiful thing in this world, love yourself and treat yourself with respect. Do not become a "side dish" for someone else's entertainment.

[Clough]

Hi, angel_3101!

phillysteakandcheese makes some excellent points in the post! I would like to add, that if you fall for someone who is willing to cheat on his wife, then this man is a person who lacks moral values and commitment. You're worth more than that. I would suggest finding someone who is single and willing to make a commitment to just you.

Thanks!