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When do I make contact?
Hey all!
First off! Yay for me. Cause as some off you know I've hade a problem with my ex... But last night I meet a girl at the club and had a great time sleep over at her place but no sex. And I didn't think anything at all about my ex... witch is a big step for me :) So now for this new girl... Just before she gut on the buss (lives a bit away from here) I said that we should talk some day and she said maybe... So I was thinking of send in a message to her but I wonder if I should wait maybe... Let her wonder why I isn't calling... Good/bad idea? Thanks |
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Well don't wait too long, or else she might think you aren't interested! Also, if you want nothing BUT sex from this girl, you are risking a lot, in my opinion.
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Pursuing other girls as a means to forget about ex is like using gasoline to put out a fire.
But hey, its your bonfire! |
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If you do - wait a couple days - for some weird reason women get more interested whenyou wait. Be mysterious and unpredictable this time.
Wait 4 or 5 days - you're a busy guy WITH LOTS OF OPTIONS!! NO MESSAGES - Call!! Believe me - messages and text - and going forward I am saying this - is for the weak. You got to call. |
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You may think your over your ex but you aren't. I know you aren't and so do you.
It doesn't mean you can't meet people and maybehdate a bit but don't vest too much, if any emotion in them. You aren't ready. All your emotions should be put to looking after yourself and greiving in a healthy manner. If you really must though, give her a call in a few days. But plase just keep it fun and don't expect anything and try and have anything serious. You will just set yourself up for more hurt. |
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Be honest with yourself and make sure your over the ex. Nothing worse than taking baggage into a new relationship. If your really ready then 4 days and give her a call. Remember dating is fun so please no soap opera dramas.
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Yeah, wait a while. Give it 2 weeks, then a quick contact and see where she takes it from there. Meanwhile, keep busy so that you don't have any time to obsess about her.
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I wouldn't contact her at all.
Your not ready. Read PatBatemans thread. He will tell you the same! Too soon to be getting into something new! |
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