[Alty]

No sir. Im not. Its just I've met several females since my last relationship. And honestly they act just like what I describe in my original statement.

Then you're not meeting the right women.

All hostility between us aside, there may be a few women that match what you stated in your original post, but the majority of women out there aren't like that at all.

Where do you go to meet people?

What qualities are you looking for in a girl?

I have to wonder why you seem to be attracting these types of women. Like I said, the only thing they all have in common is you, so I would have to wonder what it is about you that attracts these types of women.

[N0help4u]

Like I said before you need to find a more mature type girl that knows what she wants.
What age difference are you going for?
Like if you are in your mid 20's and looking for younger girls that is all you are going to find.
They are mostly more concerned about their own self centered desires and so forth.
The young girls I know they are so uneducated and have no integrity.

Try finding a girlfriend at least a couple years older than you with a decent career.

[Sweet_Guy23]

Like I said before you need to find a more mature type girl that knows what she wants.
What age difference are you going for?
Like if you are in your mid 20's and looking for younger girls that is all you are going to find.
They are mostly more concerned about their own self centered desires and so forth.
The young girls I know they are so uneducated and have no integrity.

Try finding a gf at least a couple years older than you with a decent career.

Im seeing you everywhere... and we think alike... thats scary... lol

But yeah I'm 24yrs of age... and maybe I need an older woman, but the thing is that the woman I meet are older than me. And Im enjoying single life as well, I don't need an companion. Im enjoying finishing college and enjoying life altogether but the women that I have met act that way.

[kctiger]

I meet a lot of women I don't find interesting and a lot of women I do find interesting. It is a mix, but I figure out a way to have fun regardless and I think that is the key thing. Looking can sometimes have a weird effect of making us ignore what is right in front of us.

[Alty]

Im seeing you everywhere...and we think alike...thats scary...lol

But yeah im 24yrs of age...and maybe I need an older woman, but the thing is that the woman I meet are older than me. And Im enjoying single life as well, I don't need an companion. Im enjoying finishing college and enjoying life altogether but the women that I have met act that way.

You really are meeting the wrong women.

How old are these girls?

I have to say, at 24 I thought I was really mature, heck, I got married at 24, so I guess I was mature. ;)

I've never been the type of girl you described, not even close. Are you meeting these girls in college?

Once you figure out the pattern, you can change it.

[N0help4u]

Then you need an older thinking women one that has actually grown up.

But you are doing the best thing pursuing your life and goals. The right one will be there at the right time in the right place if you are doing the right thing for you.

I know the girls I run into any more I know where you are coming from.

[Alty]

I meet a lot of women I don't find interesting and a lot of women I do find interesting. It is a mix, but I figure out a way to have fun regardless and I think that is the key thing. Looking can sometimes have a weird effect of making us ignore what is right in front of us.

So true.

It wasn't until I stopped looking that I found the guy for me.

I had actually sworn off men, was going to take a break from the whole dating thing. I had just come out of another bad relationship (I have a very long list of bad relationships).

My friends invited me out, this guy was there, he was funny, nice, didn't invade my space, we talked, had a few laughs, went out casually as friends for a while, then all of a sudden I realized that I really liked having him around.

19 years later and we're still together, married for 14 years, two kids, a lot of pets and still in love. Yes, there are times I could just smack him, but you take the bad with the good, and the bad really isn't that bad.

Stop looking, just have fun, miss right is probably right in front of you but you haven't noticed.

[N0help4u]

So true.

It wasn't until I stopped looking that I found the guy for me.

I had actually sworn off men, .

Same here I gave up but still haven't found a decent guy BUT what do I expect when I have been staying in the livingroom on the computer day in and day out!
Guess they are still sworn off in my book

[Sweet_Guy23]

I guess also Im still finding out what I really want also... but I have been having a blast lately, with just enjoying life in general.

I know this that the women that I have met so far, I know for a fact I don't want that kind of woman. Oh gees

[Alty]

I guess also Im still finding out what I really want also...but I have been having a blast lately, with just enjoying life in general.

I know this that the women that I have met so far, I know for a fact I don't want that kind of woman. oh gees

Well then, that's progress.

You may not know what you want, but you know what you don't want, so go for the opposite of what you don't want and you may find what you want.

If you understood that then you've had more coffee then me. ;)

[N0help4u]

Yep that is progress. You know what NOT to look for.
I do believe the reason I never found a really decent guy in 30 some years was that I wasn't pursuing what I wanted in my life so I ended up always being wrong place, wrong time, meeting Mr. Wrong.

[Sweet_Guy23]

yep that is progress. You know what NOT to look for.
I do believe the reason I never found a really decent guy in 30 some years was that I wasn't pursuing what I wanted in my life so I ended up always being wrong place, wrong time, meeting Mr. Wrong.

Wow! Good perspective.

[Alty]

yep that is progress. You know what NOT to look for.
I do believe the reason I never found a really decent guy in 30 some years was that I wasn't pursuing what I wanted in my life so I ended up always being wrong place, wrong time, meeting Mr. Wrong.

Mr. Right is out there. Or at lease Mr. Right now. ;)

I got lucky, met hubby when I was 19, didn't expect it, it's not the norm, most people don't find the person they'll spend their life with at 19. We work well together, we're a team, he's the icing on my cake, the cheese in my mac, the ying in my yang?

I'll keep him, let's put it that way. ;)

[Sweet_Guy23]

You and those analogies... lol

[Alty]

You and those analogies...lol

I'm the plucky comic relief, get accustomed to it. :D

[Sweet_Guy23]

I'm the plucky comic relief, get accustomed to it. :D

Excuse me then. :p

[Alty]

Excuse me then. :p

Maybe. ;)

[friend4u178]

I for one love women just the way they are but If you really jusy want a woman sweet_guy that won't whine , nag , give you space etc. etc. she is only a Credit Card away.

Mind you she can't cook ;)

[Alty]

Now M, not all women nag, some just state the obvious over and over and over again.

Not our fault you men don't listen. ;)

[friend4u178]

Now M, not all women nag, some just state the obvious over and over and over again.

Not our fault you men don't listen. ;)

Pardon?