[spazzbby]

My crush asked me to kick 723493284million times & I never went.
(oh by the way I flaked every single time)

--time passes--
I ask, after a little bit of time he asked me (to kick it)
He flakes


----more time passes----
He's back asking to kick it.
I agree
But he flakes.

---more time passes--
I ask
He flakes

----more time passes---
He's back again

Why is it that happens!
We've only talk online, but we were in school together
He was too shy to go to me
And I was too

Talking on the phone is horrible

And texting was good

But now we're blah


Which always happens, then he comes back later!





Why is this??

[N0help4u]

Gee if we knew kick 72349328 might be able to reply. Is that a drug that he wants you to kick?
He wants you to get help and you don't so he is trying to accept the relationship where its at without getting too much more emotionally attached.

[spazzbby]

Lmao noo I forgot the IT
I meant to say kick it
Like he wanted to KICK IT hahaha
Like CHILL hahahha

[Alty]

So kick it means, hang out, go out, be around each other?

Most of the people on this site are over 14 years old, helps if you speak our language. :)

If the relationship is blah then move on. Obviously there's nothing there if he doesn't even want to "kick it".

[N0help4u]

Oh I thought now there is yet another term used with kick.

You need to talk with him about what does he really want.

You can't keep playing the cat and mouse games or you won't get anywhere.
Maybe because you flaked so many times his insecurity has him worried about actually following through.
What if you asked him right after school if you could hang together for awhile?

My best guy friend says kick it but I never heard the kick 72349328.

[spazzbby]

oh my bad, yes, kick it= hang out.

see that's the thing!
I GET over it.
but then he COMES back.

he like askes me to hang out again, but I'm there like nope, but then I FEEL BAD, cause he asked me so many times, and I flaked.

so I decide okay, us hanging out once, won't hurt.

but then I take too long to decide haha.

so my main question is:

why does he come back?

[N0help4u]

Yep you need to quit playing the cat and mouse game and get on the same page.
You will never get beyond where things are otherwise.

I think he comes back because he has hope and then you turn him down again so he feels he has to go lick his wounds
Before he goes for next round

[spazzbby]

oh I thought now there is yet another term used with kick.

You need to talk with him about what does he really want.

You can't keep playing the cat and mouse games or you won't get anywhere.
Maybe because you flaked so many times his insecurity has him worried about actually following through.
What if you asked him right after school if you could hang together for awhile?

My best guy friend says kick it but I never heard the kick 72349328.

Oh haha, with the numbers I meant the amount of times he asked me to "kick it 72349328 million times"

That's how I meant it.

I mean, he just graduated, and I don't really want to approach it while our conversations are not even going like they do. So that's why I'm holding back

But I don't understand why he returns? If I flaked so much?

[N0help4u]

Ahhh like my Excedrin headache #82349328

[spazzbby]

Haha something like that