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    crisluvsu731 Posts: 150, Reputation: 6
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    Jul 21, 2009, 01:04 PM
    My boyfriend doesn't turn me on
    I am kind of having the same problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and I'm not sure that he can turn me on anymore? I hate to say it, but thinking about other guys during the process turns me on. Is that horrible of me?
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    Jul 22, 2009, 06:46 AM

    Can I respond with a question?

    Why does he not turn you on anymore?
    Asking because I think my fiancé might feel the way you do.
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    Jul 22, 2009, 08:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by crisluvsu731 View Post
    I hate to say it, but thinking about other guys during the process turns me on. Is that horrible of me?
    Not horrible, no. There's just no chemistry, that's all.

    If you're not attracted to someone now, you never will be. Just break-up with him.
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    Jul 22, 2009, 08:07 AM

    Sometimes there is always someone out there that can be better for you and will forever please you. If you aren't feeling things anymore then don't push yourslef to do it.
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    Jul 22, 2009, 08:08 AM

    Is it time to move on? Do you love him? You need to ask yourself if you can see your life without him.
    Sometimes the answers are hard to deal with. All of this is up to you.
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    Jul 22, 2009, 09:53 AM
    How old are you for starters? It sounds to me like either the two of you are not compatible enough or you don't yet have the emotional maturity to want to settle down with one person. No that isn't meant to be a jab, It's a fact and different people achieve it at different times... Some not until their 30's and a few never.
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    Aug 10, 2009, 10:47 AM
    I am 22, he is 27. I love him and I am really attracted to him. The reality of it is that he is insecure about his size, and I don't want to be mean but he is small and I don't know what to do to help him. Sometimes it is hard to feel him inside me. God, I feel horrible saying that.
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    Aug 10, 2009, 11:11 AM
    It's not your fault at all. Sometimes men just aren't well endowed. Try foreplay first. That usually will get a man to get at his hardest. And maybe try different positions so that he can get to the more sensitive ares of your body.

    Good luck!
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    Aug 15, 2009, 10:23 PM

    Maybe try telling him you want to try sex toys(vibrators , dildoes) he will probably think it is just something new you want to try
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