Sorry that I haven't responded sooner, but I've been out of town recently.
I actually didn't find this in a book, but rather derived it from the definition of the variance. It's based on the same mathematics as mechanical or civil engineers use to determine the moment of inertia of various shapes, which like the variance involves the square of differences to a mean.
The basic quantity that one works with here is variance, which involves the sum of squares of the differences for each data point from the mean. If you want to find the sum of the squares of those data points from a different mean, you can do this by starting with the initial variance and then adding the square of the difference new mean from the old times the numbetr of points involved. The proof of it goes like this:
Suppose you have N points that have the mean

, and suppose the distance from each point to that mean is

. For example if the data points are 8, 9, and 13, the mean is 10 and the values for the d’s are -2, -1 and 3. Note that the sum of the distances is 0; this is the definition of the mean. Stated another way:
The variance of this data set is found from
Now suppose you want to find the variance of this data set from a new number, call it

. Call the distance from the original

to

. You then proceed by finding the square of the differences of each point from the new number:
Now we know that:

. So this becomes:
But
So:
This is the basic idea. The rest of it involves turning the variance into standard deviation, by multiply or dividing as appropriate by N or N-1 as appropriate, and then taking the square root.
Hope this helps. Post back if you're still having difficulty.