[baby_girl_lil_chris]

Me and my boyfriend have been trying to get pregnant. We have sex everyday just so we don't miss the ovulaton period. And I took a test Saturday October 28 and it said positive btut he window box that tells weather it worked or not didn't show up. And I took another one Sunday October 29 and it said negative but the negative sign was real faint, you could bearly read it. I don't want to buy another test and waste my money if all its going to do is mess up. Maybe you can help me.

[J_9]

You need to take the test with first morning urine for it to be accurate first of all.

Second of all, if you are trying you don't need to do it every night, this lowers the sperm count and makes it harder to get pregnant.

Thirdly, while I am not criticizing your decision to have a child right now, are you aware of EVERYTHING involved in raising a child if you end up being a single mother? It is much easier for a man to leave a relationship than it is for him to leave a marriage.

When the going gets rough with a child, and believe me it will I have had 4, it is so much easier for him to take the high road than it is when you are married. When you are married divorce is lengthy and very costly. So, think long and hard about your decision to have a baby prior to marriage.