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    nett20 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 9, 2009, 12:54 AM
    Where do I stand?
    So I met this guy through a mutual friend 5 months ago. We have been talking and chating online on a regular basis. He would call me randomly and he would message me immediately when I'm on chat messenger. My instinct is saying he might be interested, but I'm not sure. He asked me to join him at a friend's cocktail party. Another time we went and watched a movie. Whenever I initiate to hang out, he doesn't say yes nor no, and nothing ends up happening. One time when I was out with a good guy friend, he called me 10 times that night. I am 2 years older than this guy. Not sure if this is a factor. Then again, not sure where I stand. What should I do?
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    Aug 9, 2009, 03:01 AM
    I would say he was interested, but not committed.

    You could wait for him to initiate a conversation about a relationship, or you could ask him yourself. Maybe he is just shy or nervous about taking that next step with you.

    But, I like your style. Keep living your life, and don't hang around waiting for him to call or make a move.
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    Aug 9, 2009, 05:35 AM

    Sounds like he just wants to have fun with you without anything serious.

    If he's not going to take you seriously, then why take him seriously?
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