[wkdbluelady]

My husband has children from his first marriage, when we got together. We now have 1 son. I am in my early thirties, and want more kids, but he keeps saying next year, next year. We are now three years down the line, and he keeps fobbing my off. He thinks by having more kids, it will make his other kids left out. Its really getting me down. Should I be with someone who wants different things to me?

[amicon]

Dear blue lady.didnt the two of you discuss children before you got married?this sounds like a matter for counselling.a child needs and is owed love affection and protection from both their willing parents.

[I wish]

It depends on how much you love him. If you really love him, then you have to sit him down and have a serious talk. No more putting it off. 3 years is a lot and if he keeps saying next year, I don't know how you can believe him anymore.

If he can't give you what you want, then you're right, maybe it's time to find someone else with more in common with you.

[talaniman]

How many more kids do you want? Do you work? How old are you both? How long have you been married? How many kids does he have already? More info please.