[BlackVY]

Also read your other thread asking if you were Bi-sexual.

I think your question in your other thread can be answered here. You seem lost and unsure of what is going on. You don't know who you are, and are therefore questioning things.

Like Torrid said, the best thing to do is talk to your man, connect with him. Try to get back what you once had with him, as feelings don't just disappear all of a sudden.

Try to do things to get the spark back, go out on dates with him, surprise him from time to time. Marriage is not easy and it isn't always smooth. It takes work, a lot of work.

First of all, you need to find yourself and decide who you are. If you are wondering if you are bi-sexual, then how can you also spend time thinking about your husband and your relationship?

Take it slow, think and talk with your partner, but don't jump into conclusions and make hasty decisions.

Good luck

[mudweiser]

I'm just going to say it....

I think that he's at that "wake up point". He's been with you for so long, and at a young and tender age, where he should have been free, and experience things-- and so should have you.

I believe, truly, that not having those experiences, and not having that time to grow by yourself, learn to be yourself, and discover who you are, is going to eventually terminate this relationship.

Your just as confused as he is.

Whether you want to start couple's counseling, and "work thought it", or separate amicably is up to you.

In my mind, call me cynical, I believe eventually you'll split up-- you don't have to hate each other, but you both do have a lot to learn about yourselves and about life.. separately.

Just my opinion...

Sarah

[Fr_Chuck]

Please only start one thread about similar subjects

[Ash123]

1. Easy on the chat-speak
2. If the feelings did not exist until now I don't think you are gay
3. Bisexual? That is not likely
4. Curious? Yep. Willing to try for fun? Yep.
5. Worth doing? No.
6. TIME TO TALK
7. Time to see a counselor.
8. If nothing gets better after a year make a decision
9. No reason to wait.
10. Any more questions? :-)

Hang in there!

A

[k1kxo19]

Well your at the age where your hormones are a little more balanced so I'm guessing you ARE bisexual. Now its up to you if you want to tell your man. Maybe he will be... interesed... if you know what I mean. But also be prepared for him to freak out.