[story-love]

Heeey can anyone help me with this prob! Girls could u tell me how would you make a guy try fall for you, and guys could you tel me what would make you fall for about a girl

[mudweiser]

You can't make someone fall for you. Don't try getting any negative attention by: showing more cleavage, wearing ultra low-rise jeans--- just being your basic slut. This way he'll only see your body and not you as a person; you'll feel used and stupid in the end.

You can though: be yourself.

It's the best thing out there- if you can't be yourself and you don't think that's good enough for that person then that person isn't right for you to begin with.

I would also suggest conversing with the guy. Take is slow; don't immediately try to date him-- get to know him and give him a chance to get to know what a real prize you are.

Be smarter than other girls that try to throw themselves at boys; it's true they do get attention but it only lasts for so long, and boys don't really respect girls who are like that. You want respect. You want that connection based on YOU not because of your body.

Just be yourself.

Sarah

[story-love]

Oh OK but you see were having casual sex atm, but I want to turn it into a relationship

[mudweiser]

oh ok but ya see were havin casual sex atm, but i want to turn it into a relationship

Ah. This is a little hard- actually it may not even be possible. This guy came in thinking there were no strings attached and now you want a relationship...

The only thing you can do is to STOP having sex and be direct and tell him that you would like to evolve into a couple. Be calm. Don't cry. Don't argue. You BOTH made this into a casual sex relationship-- if he does not want to be your boyfriend then I suggest you stop having sex with him all together and leave him alone.

Your in a tough spot, to be honest I really doubt he'll want to make this into a relationship-- perhaps I'm wrong and he has fallen for you as well but is afraid to admit so.

Best thing to do is call him and ask for him to come to dinner. Once he's there talk to him about it- be upfront but gentle, be clear with what you want.

Good luck.

Sarah

[story-love]

Thanks a lot that helped. I will try that :) xxx

[mudweiser]

No problem.

Keep us posted.

Hope it turns out well.

Sarah