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    Sarah_Jaitley Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 27, 2009, 09:41 PM
    Husband's relatives causing stress
    Hi All,
    About 10 days back my husband's uncle with his entire family came to ou house and ever since they have been staying with us. They had come for admission of their son in one of the institutes in our city. Even though admission is now over and the his classes have begun they are not trying to find out any paying guest option for him or make his arrangement anywhere else. He has been commuting to his college ever since from our house. This uncle has no job and thus seems in no rush to go back to where he belongs. Also because it is cheaper option for his son to stay in our house than in any pg he is not making an effort to shift him too. Its only been 3 months that I have got married and being newly married I really feel I deserve some privacy that has been taken away from me ever since they havewalked in. My husband doesn't want to say anything to them as it can spoil his relations with them. I am a working women and already have a very stressful schedule. They are an added burden and it is started to take toll on my health. Please help me out of this, I derperately nedd help as I'm losing myself in it.
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    Jul 27, 2009, 09:45 PM

    Ask your husband how long does he plan on not saying anything a month, two months, six months, a year,.

    They need confronted and ask how long they think they plan on staying and see what they have to say. Tell them that you never agreed to them moving in on you and that is not the way it is going to be.

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